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39 Salt Lake City, UT Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 19–29
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 16
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Update I'm back in SLC for the summer then, I will go back to Dubuue,Iowa for the school year.

Call me Robby!

It’s not an easy thing to describe one’s self.

I could tell you that I am a smart, kind, reserved bookworm.

Does that really tell you who I am?

I could tell you what I believe--Jesus is Lord and savior for me that means he has taught me what it means to be fully human and is the best revelation of what God truly is like.

I could describe my physical features (you see that picture at the top of the page that’s me!).

I could tell you what my friends think of me.

I could tell you that I am writing this essay in the library (my favorite place in the entire universe). I could tell you that I going to the University of Dubuque pursuing my MDiv.

All of those things and more make up the work-in-progress that is Robby! You can ask me anything you want and I will give you my honest answer.

Now you might be put off by me calling Jesus Lord and Savior but don't let it. I am not by any stretch of the imagination a traditional or conservative Christian.

I am just someone who's trying to live out the things that Jesus teaches in the Gospels--Love God Love and serve man. I am very open minded and accepting. I want equal rights for all no matter race, sexual identity or whatever. We are all human and should be treated with the dignity we deserve. Everyone is an image of God. As Abraham Herschel said, “Just to live is holy.” I am a Christian, but I’m open, honest, and authentic.

My main passion is and always will be books. You will rarely see me without a book in my hand, and frankly, I feel naked without one. Nudity aside, I enjoy many different topics and authors, but I’m enthralled by religion and philosophy.

When I’m not reading or at the library, I’m out with friends, enjoying a movie, sipping iced tea, or walking. Due to some life changes in the last few years, I’ve been more focused on my health. I’m actually enjoying taking better care of myself.

So yes, I have a very fulfilling and contented life. But of course, I’m here for a reason—to find the right woman for me. You must be kind, well read, and intelligent, have Christian beliefs and not be LDS. My family is LDS, but I’m not, as I know that church is not for me. Physical appearance is not a big factor, though I would prefer to be with a woman who isn’t taller than I am. Oh, yes- and another factor-you have to be interested in me!

I’m truly hoping to find that special woman for the long haul, but I’m willing to take my time and would like to just be good friends first.

If this piques your interest, please get my attention. It wouldn’t too hard to do that!
What I’m doing with my life
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Blogging, trying to make a difference with one random act of kindness at a time. Being the best son, friend and human I can possibly be. Becoming who I should be.
I recently enrolled at the University of Dubuque and am considering when I am done here going on to pastor a church.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a good friend, writing, reading, talking about reading, writing and spirituality and just being me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a book in my hands. I'm a lot funnier, smarter and kinder than most people think I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite book: The Faith of Leap Twelve Steps of a Compassionate Life Jesus Wants To Save Chrsitians Love Wins The End of Religion Robert Farrar Capon

I love Stephen King, especially The Dark Tower series. Just finished 11/22/63 Dr. Sleep excited for Mr. Mercedes.

Currently reading Seven Thousand Ways to Listen Why Did Jesus, Moses, The Buddha and Mohammed Cross the Road? How God Became King

I read a lot, Some may say too much. I don't read as many novels as I do Theology/Spirituality/Philosophy books. The novels I do read span the spectrum, from Stephen King to John Irving to J K Rowling. I enjoy talking books and seeing what others are reading.

I do not like the Twilight saga. If I want to read about Vampires I'll read something juciy and scary like Salems' Lot or Anne Rice's Vampire Chronicles or Drucula or The Historian! All of them infinitely better than Twilight.

Movies-- Cloud Atlas Dark City The Matrix trilogy V for Vendetta Halloween 1 & 2 What About Bob Angels & Demons What Dreams May Come Its A Wonderful Life Gone in 60 Seconds Inception Bruce Almighty Harry Potter Shawshank Redemption

TV-- Big Bang Theory Castle Gilmore Girls Law and Order SVU Quantum Leap Joan Of ArcadiaHistory Channel NCSI 7th Heaven WWE Raw

Music-- Casting Crowns U2 3 Doors Down Todd Agnew Nickelback Chris Tomlin Elton John Peter Mayer John Lennon Joan Osbourne Rush The Cure

Food-- Eggrolls Sushi Fresh Veggies Rice Stir-fry Pizza Bagels Starbucks Applebees Mexican Curry Ice Tea Oatmeal French Toast
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Coffee

2. Books and Reading

3. Writing

4. My spirituality (relationship with God)

5. Family/Friends

6. Exercise/ good healthy food

7. Church/ bible study/theology

8. My Laptop Computer

Ok. That's 8 things, but how can you limit yourself to only 6. You can call it my top 8 list.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
God/spirituality, the future, my blog, school among other things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sipping coffee and reading a good book or working.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am quirky. I don't always seem to fit into every social situation or always know what to do. If I had my way I would be in the corner reading a book. I am honest, authentic, kind and loyal to a fault. I am OK with being single and will not settle for anyone. I want to be in the right relationship. I would rather be alone for the right reasons than with someone for the wrong ones.
You should message me if
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If you have Christian beliefs.
If you want a man who will treat you right.
If you are not vain and DON'T play games.
If you want to talk about God, Jesus, spirituality.
If you want to talk about books or writing.
If you want to talk about movies.
If you have a nice smile and know how to laugh.
If you want to hang out.

If I pique your interest.

Though I've got to say it: DO NOT message me
if you smoke, do drugs
are an atheist
or LDS
or cynical.

I am not here to play games or have flings. I am here to meet the right person.

If that might be you message me I'd like to hear from you.

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