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29 M Somerville, MA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:23pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
Like a pop-tart with no frosting, I come across as rather wholesome, until you bite down into the tasty rainbow center.

When I grow up, I want to be a travel writer for Lonely Planet. Or a food truck chef. Or an entrepreneur. Or something else - it's a work in progress, this growing up business. After experimenting with the bureaucracy of higher education, and more recently, dipping my toes into software development, I feel I have covered the major Boston employment bases except for heart surgery. My friends tell me there are limits to self-teaching, but I find Grey's Anatomy coloring books to be really informative... I should be ready for Mass General any day now.

INFP/J. Sagittarius. Feminist. Bleeding heart liberal.
Ally. Heteroflexible. Sex/body positive. Inquisitive explorer.
Aspiring computer nerd. Permaculture farmer.
Budding rock climber with a fear of heights.

Elizabeth Warren's election to congress is my proudest electoral moment to date.

Learning how to make the perfect chocolate chip muffins from the Moosewood cookbook is my proudest muffin moment to date.
What I’m doing with my life
Reading an inordinate amount of news and non-fiction.
Cooking and eating inordinate amounts of veggie food.
Riding an inordinate amount of bikes.... wait a minute...

Planning daring parties with extravagant themes, snuggling with my amazing cat Agent Cooper, or gardening with my partner, pasigraphy .

I'm pretty even-keeled. But I dream about fantastic new ways to apply myself every 15 seconds.
I’m really good at
Putting the toilet seat back down after use and washing the dishes (I've been well-trained).

Snuggling, either big spoon or small spoon (not bad for a 6'1" dude).

Not hitting a single correct note when I sing along to the radio, or sing along to anything for that matter. Seriously, it's a train wreck.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I look like a normative bro.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Honestly, I either listen to NPR or house music in the car. Everything is cooler with a good house beat or Audie Cornish in the background. Even driving.

Books - The River Why, Watership Down, Venus in Fur, My Story as Told by Water, Dune, anything by Dave Eggers, On The Road, Small is Beautiful, A People's History..., Things Fall Apart, The Motorcycle Diaries, What is the What, Mountains Beyond Mountains, Middlesex, East of Eden, Into the Wild, Homage to Catalonia, Das Kapital, Revolutionary Road, Don't Let's Go to the Dogs Tonight, Clockwork Orange, The Fate of Africa, King Leopold's Ghost, The Nine

NYTimes, The Economist, Jezebel, Mother Jones, NPR, New Republic, Foreign Policy, The Atlantic, Daily Kos, Savage Love, The New Yorker, the Daily Show (yes, I get my news from Jon), Democracy Now

Movies - Amelie, City of God, Seven, A River Runs Through It, Sandlot, The Rainmaker, Hotel Rwanda, Shawshank Redemption, Full Metal Jacket, The Motorcycle Diaries, The Goonies, Clockwork Orange, Velvet Goldmine

Music - Y La Bamba, Bonobo, Mates of State, Bon Iver, Horse Feathers, Sharon Van Etten, Beirut, Simon & Garfunkel, The XX, Ani DiFranco, Blue Scholars, Otis Redding, Elliott Smith, Mirah, Typhoon, Ratatat, She & Him, Cat Power, Iron & Wine, Mirah, Tom Waits, Yann Tiersen, Modest Mouse, M Ward, Florence & the Machine, Ali Farka Toure, Great Lake Swimmers, Black Keys, The Police, Ray LaMontagne, Eddie Vedder, Tegan and Sara, Xavier Rudd, Regina Spektor, Seun Kuti

Dave Brubeck's "Take Five" is the sexiest song ever. Period.

Food - Japanese (sushi!!!), Thai, Indian, Mexican, Ethiopian, & french fries

Can we list favorite websites? My favorite is So many projects, so many good returns. The micro-lending site that keeps on giving.
The six things I could never do without
All you need is love.
(And maybe some coffee, and a backgammon set).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Travel. Culture. Peak oil. School. Learning computer geek talk. My future. My next tattoo. What I want to eat for lunch tomorrow. Buying land. Buying a plane ticket. How I should go to yoga. New adventures. Oligarchy and the proletariat. Whether my cat is going to ambush me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Lately I'm at the rock gym on Friday nights. Care to join?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Recovering Southern Baptist kid. (My take away from those years was that Jesus was a progressive hippie who preached redistribution and turning the other cheek. Word).
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 20–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You have a good heart.
You're adventurous.
You think outside of the box.
You're a fan of Ralph Nader, Bernie Sanders, Bill Nye the Science Guy, or Elizabeth Warren.
You know SQL, CSS, C++, or any other fun geek languages.
You can tie a good blood-knot.
You home-brew and/or are interested in home-brewing.
You enjoy a rousing game of backgammon.
You can explain to me some particle physics.
You want to go for a bike ride.
You might be interested in hanging out with my partner also.
You think we'd hit it off as friends (and/or as more than friends).