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30 Ithaca, NY Cis Man

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  • Ages 20-99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Nov 27
Relationship Type
6' 1" (1.85m)
Special Diet
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
My self-summary
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Like a pop-tart with no frosting, I come across as rather wholesome, until you bite down into the tasty rainbow center.

When I grow up, I want to be a travel writer for Lonely Planet. Or a food truck chef. Or an entrepreneur. Or something else - it's a work in progress, this growing up business.

Recently moved to the Ithaca-area from Boston. My partner is still there so we're doing the long distance thing for now until she can get out here as well.

INFP/J. Sagittarius. Feminist. Bleeding heart liberal. Heteroflexible. Sex/body positive. Inquisitive explorer. Aspiring small business owner. Permaculture farmer. Budding rock climber with a fear of heights.

Elizabeth Warren's election to congress is my proudest electoral moment to date.

Learning how to make the perfect chocolate chip muffins from the Moosewood cookbook is my proudest muffin moment to date.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Reading an inordinate amount of news and non-fiction.
Cooking and eating inordinate amounts of veggie food.
Riding an inordinate amount of bikes.... wait a minute...

Planning daring parties with extravagant themes, snuggling with my amazing cat Agent Cooper, or gardening with my partner, pasigraphy.

Have lately gotten really into eating super healthy. Time will tell if it's just a fad but I'm totally digging sprouting all the seeds and legumes I can. Can't stop, won't stop.

Yoga, rock climbing, riding my bike

I'm pretty even-keeled. But I dream about fantastic new ways to apply myself every 15 seconds.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Putting the toilet seat back down after use and washing the dishes (I've been well-trained).

Snuggling, either big spoon or small spoon (not bad for a 6'1" dude).

Cooking tasty vegetarian meals and making beer (I also make a mean Vieux Carre).

Not hitting a single correct note when I sing along to the radio, or sing along to anything for that matter. Seriously, it's a train wreck.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I look like a normative bro.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Honestly, I either listen to NPR or house music in the car. Everything is cooler with a good house beat or Audie Cornish in the background. Even driving.

Books - The River Why, Watership Down, Venus in Fur, My Story as Told by Water, Dune, anything by Dave Eggers, On The Road, Small is Beautiful, A People's History..., Things Fall Apart, The Motorcycle Diaries, What is the What, Mountains Beyond Mountains, Middlesex, East of Eden, Into the Wild, Homage to Catalonia, Das Kapital, Revolutionary Road, Don't Let's Go to the Dogs Tonight, Clockwork Orange, The Fate of Africa, King Leopold's Ghost, The Nine

NYTimes, The Economist, Jezebel, Mother Jones, NPR, New Republic, Foreign Policy, The Atlantic, Daily Kos, Savage Love, The New Yorker, the Daily Show (yes, I get my news from Jon), Democracy Now

Movies - Amelie, City of God, Seven, A River Runs Through It, Sandlot, The Rainmaker, Hotel Rwanda, Shawshank Redemption, Full Metal Jacket, The Motorcycle Diaries, The Goonies, Clockwork Orange, Velvet Goldmine

Music - Y La Bamba, Bonobo, Mates of State, Bon Iver, Horse Feathers, Sharon Van Etten, Beirut, Simon & Garfunkel, The XX, Ani DiFranco, Blue Scholars, Otis Redding, Elliott Smith, Mirah, Typhoon, Ratatat, She & Him, Cat Power, Iron & Wine, Mirah, Tom Waits, Yann Tiersen, Modest Mouse, M Ward, Florence & the Machine, Ali Farka Toure, Great Lake Swimmers, Black Keys, The Police, Ray LaMontagne, Eddie Vedder, Tegan and Sara, Xavier Rudd, Regina Spektor, Seun Kuti

I think Dave Brubeck's "Take Five" is the sexiest song ever.

Food - I eat mostly vegetarian and often times vegan but sushi is one of my guilty pleasures that I may never be able to give up.

Can we list favorite websites? My favorite is So many projects, so many good returns. The micro-lending site that keeps on giving.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
All you need is love.
(And maybe some coffee, and a backgammon set).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Travel. Culture. Peak oil. School. Learning computer geek talk. My future. My next tattoo. What I want to eat for lunch tomorrow. Buying land. Buying a plane ticket. How I should go to yoga. New adventures. Oligarchy and the proletariat. Whether my cat is going to ambush me. Starting a microbrewery or brewpub.

Why is it so damn hard to find a good travel mug that doesn't leak!!! I'm incensed!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday nights are tough right now, I'm usually in the car driving back to Boston.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Recovering Southern Baptist kid. (My take away from those years was that Jesus was a progressive hippie who preached redistribution and turning the other cheek. Word).
You should message me if
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You have a good heart.
You're adventurous.
You're fierce and wily.
You think outside of the box.
You're a fan of Ralph Nader, Bernie Sanders, Elizabeth Warren, or Bill Nye the Science Guy.
You can tie a good blood-knot.
You home-brew and/or are interested in home-brewing.
You enjoy a rousing game of backgammon.
You can explain to me some particle physics.
You want to go for a bike ride.
You might be interested in hanging out with my partner also.
You think we'd hit it off as friends (and/or as more than friends).