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52 Pensacola, FL Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:46pm
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body type
Full figured
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Sales / Marketing
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and dislikes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello :)

I'm happy and I'd like to stay that way. One day, traveling with my partner would be fun. If you speak your mind, that's great because I do too, and am nice about it.

I am open to finding love. If that is your purpose for being here then we are already on the same page. Actually, this girl does prefer the "nice guy" if that is you, let's talk :) However, if you are looking for a hook up...I know this just kidding.

Sometimes a hard liquor drink is fine but not everyday (or even every week). It is important that I am with someone who is basically sober minded. This girl does like to have fun here and there.Although I still don't drink wine that much I tend to believe it is healthy and don't consider drinking a glass at meal time in the same category as alcohol abuse. It is healthy to consume IMO and doctors. But beer or liquor everyday....uh no.

I stay away from drama. Religiously, guys I am close to God but closed to any particular extremist belief. If you are a Christian man just be mindful that I have been there, done that, and happily got away from it.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have the love of a daughter and a beautiful grandson who I frequently enjoy when I am not working. However, I am wanting to spend time with a male who is my own age:)

Writing and Painting are my hobbies. I also enjoy gardening, although that is a challenge now that I have moved into an apartment complex. My balcony knows the beauty of the much as I can provide.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Telling the truth.

This is a good place to start. I traveled many years and recently moved back home to Pensacola to be closer to my daughter and my grandchildren. I have no desire to move away again.

Some people look at one another's profiles from far away. I think it is best that you know this up front so there is no confusion about our future geography
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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When I was young, the music of the 70's told stories, and in those words, I felt as if I were given a few minutes insight into the writer or singers life, love and beliefs. To this day I prefer its sounds over all others.

The Comedy,that will be my choice most often, for I do so love to laugh.

Socially, I enjoy going to festivals. Gallery night was one of my favorite times in Pensacola, but that was when it represented its name. Now it is all about walking the streets with a drink in your hand and less about exposing new artists.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Would it not be far more interesting to learn of the six things one would choose to live with?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Though I doubt "a lot" would find more time than less, I do find myself inquiring about what is beyond the sun more often than not.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Resting as I am a weekend warrior-ess....

My job has me working weekends. If this will cause you social issue, please note your decision to contact me is with clarity. I do enjoy my work :)
You should message me if
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You are a true gentleman...

If you do write me and in return, receive no correspondence, I first thank you for the interest, and know my silence is an acknowledgement that my personal belief is... we are not a match....respectfully.