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46 M Santa Maria, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 29–48
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:27am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a confident, educated, healthy, athletic father of three wonderful children. I am a busy person with my kids school and sports probably taking up most of my time. I am hoping to find some new friends and maybe even a closer connection - someone I can travel with and take on vacations. Someone who I might someday share my family with and theirs with me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Just ask me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Playing Guitar, Writing Music, Editing Video, Wakeboarding, Videography, Debating, Parenting!, Fixing Computers, Soccer
The first things people usually notice about me
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Blue Eyes...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Communion - Whitley Streiber

Alien 1, Contact, Elf, Walk Hard, Apocalypto, Ponyo

Deftones, 30STM, Old RUSH, My Chemical Romance, APC, Timbaland, 2ne1, etc...

ALL kinds of food...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Imported beer,
All four seasons (no really!)
The low E string
My children
My smartphone
My boat
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Society's preconceptions of success and happiness - e.g. money does not make you happy...
The blatant hypocrisy of people who say they are religious - I am not religious btw, but I am spiritual and intensely devoted to truth and knowledge.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Taking my kids out to dinner, finishing up paperwork, or prepping for a weekend trip to the lake or snow. Not much time to socialize unless I find that person to make the extra effort, yea?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I haven't been in love for ten years. I hope it happens again. I've learned so much since then...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You should message me if you like my profile. I won't play games. If I don't think we're a match I will politely say so. If we have the same interests, we should be having fun together!