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58 New York, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 45-60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 3:13pm
5' 5" (1.65m)
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Has kid(s)
English, French
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I think I've written enough. Talk to me if you feel something when you read what I've said & look at me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
living it as fully as possible with as little bullshit as possible
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening, making a man I like feel understood & wanted because I listen & pay attention, meeting challenges & giving them, being playful & smart at the same time, walking tall, looking deep into your eyes if I like you, being sexy and classy at the same time & then not necessarily
The first things people usually notice about me
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My pretty face with deep blue/green soulful eyes & full lips, my intelligence & sense of irony, my compassionate nature & big heart, my strength & sense of who I am & what I believe in, my need to be a free spirit, my love of men who make me laugh & keep me challenged
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Graham Greene, (the early & later works of) Phillip Roth, William Faulkner, Brian Moore, Tolstoy's ANNA, Yeats

John Coltrane, Marvin Gaye, Prince, Eric Alexander, really most of Motown, Junior Wells, Sinead & Van, even some Usher & George Clinton

Damage, 21 Grahams, The Godfather, Clockwork Orange, L.A. Confidential, French cinema in the 60's, Martin Scorcese

Equs (sp), Death of a Salesman, Street Car Named Desire, 'Night Mother, Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf (with Richard Burton & Elisabeth Taylor)

I'm a former modern dancer/Merce Cunningham, Balanchine, Nureyev

I love sports. Basketball is my favorite. Don't know what I'm going to do this winter if the NBA can't get it together! Baseball (from my father), (even) football (from my son)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my son, emotional & sexual connection, passion, music, intellectual & artistic stimulation, the sun on my face and through my hair
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how America got to where we are & where we are going, pleasure, especially when the mind can walk with the body, how I can make my lover happier & what I want him to do to me, how to loosen up, laugh more, calm down, cool out, how I can use my talents & gifts to give me satisfaction & make a difference, pleasure, pleasure pleasure, how to focus more on getting what I want without giving up my ability to empathize, love, give & to forget about the world's problems & be in the moment, how to live mylife with physical & emotional direction, how to let the mind walk with the body...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
no such thing....depends what I chose to do & whether who I want with me makes that choice
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I think I've said enough, don't you?
You should message me if
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what I've said hits you in some deep place. don't bother me if you're only interested in a virtual relationship, think I'm the love of my life before we've even met, have nothing to say & can't give beyond a cliche.

Think you can teach me & learn from me as well--cool. Reach out then