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8StringMelody Away

52 / F / Straight / Single

Storrs Mansfield, Connecticut

Her Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I love this place. In the time I've been here, I've been out dining, dancing, drinking, hiking, camping, fishing, kayaking, canoeing, whitewater rafting, stargazing, boating, bike riding, motorcycle riding... I've been taken to parties, dances, shows, movies, concerts, festivals, flea markets, farmers markets...

In addition, I've had some wonderful offers and invitations here lately, from some pretty fabulous guys... cute, smart, funny, adventurous guys. Not just the usual drinks, dinner and walks on the beach, either... offers of exotic travel, foot rubs, pedicures, shoe shopping, full body massage, tongue baths, naked floor washing...

But the very best things I've received here, or anywhere else, for that matter, are love and friendship.

So what do you say we just sit, have a drink, if you'd like... a nice conversation, maybe even take a walk if it's nice out... Okay?

And I'm completely serious about receiving all of those offers. It's probably not allowed, but you guys really ought to log in as girls sometime, see what it's like at this end of the inbox. You will be amazed. And amused. Or maybe you'll hate us for having so much fun. But I guarantee you... you'll never see this place the same way again.

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According to the tests, I'm an emotionally young, compassionate, VW-driving, socialist hippie prankster with 26 years still to come. 57% virgin, 69% slut... Apparently, the two aren't mutually exclusive, and I suspect that within that 26% overlap lie some of my more interesting traits. Plus I'm an "intellectual inferno", and a "peach" to date.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm on a life-long journey of discovery of life's wonders, enthusiastically open to new people and new ideas. I'm a kind and genuine person with good intentions, and I'm constantly seeking ways to fulfill my craving for knowledge, expression, new experiences, self-improvement, laughter, and happiness. I believe that love is the greatest gift, that all good things emanate from it, and I strive to give back many times over what I receive. I wholeheartedly believe that happiness is found within oneself, but life is a journey best shared with other hearts and souls.

“...being authentic is not a luxury. It is a matter of life and death. It’s better to authentically suck than to inauthentically excel. It’s that big a deal. Otherwise you end up trapped in a persona that will never feed you. You get praised for stuff you’re not really proud of and your real self starves for attention. And then you get sick and die. Or you go crazy. Or you commit the slow suicide of addiction. Because you’re not showing who you really are. And so you are not being loved for who you really are. And who you really are slowly starts to die.” ~Cary Tennis
I’m really good at
Finding evidence everywhere I turn to support my theory that life, good or bad, is just one big, amazing, grand adventure... stumbling upon clues to a mystery I don't even pretend to understand.
The first things people usually notice about me
My shoes?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kGsfFOvjVyQ
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My mother was a librarian; I grew up in the library, so I love it all. I love the way a book conveys another's thoughts across all barriers of space and time. There are several authors who can make me say, "Thanks, but I have other plans tonight", but I honestly doubt you need me to list them here. But if you really like to talk books, I'd be happy to put my hair up in a bun and don my thick glasses and pencil skirt. Anytime.

I haven't had TV in years, I'd rather live life than watch it.

My musical tastes are wide; I listen to a lot of music. But my playlist probably has a lot more banjo than yours. And a lot more Jerry Garcia.

I play the mandolin, and while not particularly skilled or talented, I love the energy shared when playing with others. I'm always looking for new people to play with. And dancers, too... I love to dance.

I think this song, written and performed by Lisa Hannigan, has the perfect vibe for this place...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7WwaPv1rZiQ

Favorite food... oysters and Guinness... Mmmmm...
The six things I could never do without
I've learned that there is very little I can't do without, other than the mandatory air, water and food. To thrive, I would add love, beauty and passion, but I'm not sure where each of those ends and the next begins.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Harmonies
Dragonflies
Resonance
Shoes
Semicolons
Sexy, devilishly handsome men
Bluebirds
Where I might have put my car keys
Not necessarily in that order.
On a typical Friday night I am
... sort of tired after a long week... talk to me on Saturday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
On the question of religion... I wanted to check off "Buddhist and serious about it"... because I thought it would be a really funny answer.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 39–59
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
Feel free to message me...even if all you have to say is hi. I love meeting new people; there is no reason to not make a new friend. Don't sell the future short; you never know what it has in store.