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8r1an

37 M Los Angeles, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 1
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello my name is Brian,
Intimacy and vulnerability turn me on. I like saying and hearing those things that we're afraid to express. I want to know the invisible structure of the universe and I figure I've got another 150 years left, so no time to waste!

I LOVE nature and am always looking for an excuse to get outside, surfing, hiking, camping, freeze tag. If I start ranting about "society" just pinch me or roll your eyes and I'll stop.

I'm obsessed with true stories, science, gameification, psychology, mindfulness, spirituality, and sexuality. I want to meet men and women who get super excited when they start talking about these things, especially if doing it on a hike or camping trip particularly appeals to you. This is the most important thing to me, that our passions intersect, weather or not we end up as friends or more.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm in training to be a life coach, partially to become a life coach and mostly to find my own freedom.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Picking chocolate chips out of trail mix.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I dunno, they usually don't tell me. I hope it's not something bad, now I'm self conscious.
Maybe my dimples or kind eyes?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like work of any sort that feels authentic, which is kinda hard to find.
Podcasts:
Radiolab, This American Life, The Moth, Savage Love, Snap Judgement.
Music:
David Bowie, Beatles, Beethoven (or as I call them the 3 b's), Pink Floyd, Nick Drake, Krishna Das, Ratatat, Arcade Fire, Flaming Lips, Hot Chip, Iron & Wine, The Shins, Billie Holiday.
Books:
Middlesex, Harry Potter, Autobiography of a Yogi, Siddhartha, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Dune, Be Here Now, The Razor's Edge, The Little Prince.
TV:
Cosmos, The Wire, Avatar: The Last Airbender, Spaced, Game of Thrones, Arrested Development, Spaced, Mad Men, The Simsons, Alf.
Movies:
Baraka, Spritied Away, Nightmare Before Christmas, Beetlejuice, Peewee's Big Adventure, Shawshank Redemption, The Royal Tannenbaums, Annie Hall, and my all time favorite Ghost Busters.
I also love documentaries but none are coming to mind.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I think the universe tends to test us by taking away those things we think we can't do without so we can realize we'll be ok. But here's some stuff I like a lot:
1. Stories
2. Places untouched by bulldozers
3. Conversations that break new ground
4. A good challenge that I can sink my teeth in to
5. Moving my body
6. Human connection
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The Universe and how it all works.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Lately I've been all over the place, including out of town a lot so there is no typical friday night, but you'll rarely find me at a bar.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The more I explore the more I realize I'm kinda kinky.
I think my favorite thing is when my partner and I are doing something neither of us have done before. Feels like an adventure (in bed).
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
"A human being is a part of the whole, called by us, "Universe," a part limited in time and space. He experiences himself, his thoughts and feelings as something separated from the rest -- a kind of optical delusion of his consciousness.

This delusion is a kind of prison for us, restricting us to our personal desires and to affection for a few persons nearest to us. Our task must be to free ourselves from this prison by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature in its beauty."
~Albert Einstein

If reading that gave you a soul boner then you should contact me.