I am hella genderqueer, often flamboyant, and often mistaken for a gay male. I usually don't even bother to try flirting with heterosexual women because they often just end up confused. If you're straight and interested in me, don't be shy about writing though.
I'm very pragmatic, but not without a weird playful side. I'm a cuddler, a writer, a painter, an agnostic Unitarian Universalist, liberal on most political subjects, extroverted in the Summer, and introverted in the Winter.
I might be mildly autistic -- some tests say I am, others say I'm not. It was never picked up on by adults while I was growing up, but I sometimes have trouble with facial expressions, recognizing sarcasm unless it's really obvious, and other social cues. Also, I tend to relate to "high functioning" autistic people really well. Fair warning: I'm absolutely terrible at determining how well first dates go.
I ride my bicycle everywhere, and I do all my own bike maintenance.
I'm a total sucker for selfless do-gooders.
When I want to be social, I often like to go out dancing or to karaoke at a bar, but nothing beats a chill house party. When I don't want to be particularly social, you can find me either reading a book, playing on my computer, bingeing on a TV series, or submitting to my studies.
I once set my OkC account to "include me in searches for women," and left it that way overnight. When I woke up in the morning, I had over forty quickmatch alerts, all from straight men who very obviously just clicked the star-button without glancing at so much as my photos, let alone my profile. It baffles me that any women take this site seriously.
I'm mostly non-monogamous, but I'd consider monogamy for somebody who was really special; head over heels kind of special. Like I started off with: Let's be friends first, and see where that goes.