Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I live in a Tiny House I built myself on an organic farm in
Worcester, where I run my own wilderness business. Living off the
grid is something I love! AT 72 sq ft, my house is smaller than
some people's bathrooms, but it fits me perfectly and I love it --
no room for clutter!
Though I've lived in a lot of different places, I always seek out a
sense of community wherever I am, and I've truly fallen in love
with my circle of sassy, magical, hardy friends here in Worcester.
Having a circle of true friends is key to my happiness. I believe
in working hard to turn my dreams into my concrete daily reality,
and I love meeting folks who are doing the same. I'm currently in a
committed polyamorous relationship with the love of my life, a
fierce entrepreneur femme who lives in Burlington. We are both
extremely independent, so I still have lots of freedom to spend
with friends and the occasional lover.
I am enthusiastic, thoughtful, and honest. People always tell me
that they feel safe with me.
What I’m doing with my life
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Pouring my heart and soul into my wilderness business:
skill classes, spiritually-themed expeditions, and hunting
experiences, some for women only, some open to all genders, all
trans and queer friendly :-)
I’m really good at
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Hiking up mountains. Steering a canoe. Starting a fire with a
Contradancing. Listening. Howling like a wolf. Finding awesome
public libraries to hang out in. First Aid (I'm a Wilderness EMT
& Street Medic).
In the less concrete realm, I'm a very hard worker, I'm good at
organizing my time, I'm intellectual and practical at the same
time, and I'm good at judging people's character.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm tall, handsome, and butch.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Long a bibliophile, I seem to find much less time for reading these
days, probably because I am usually out actually doing the things I
used to read about: having adventures in the wilderness and
building a house.
When I do find a quiet moment, I mainly read inspiring nonfiction
(Mountains Beyond Mountains), pagan theology (Starhawk), how-to
books (The Very Efficient Carpenter), and occasionally some classic
literature (Moby Dick).
I occasionally enjoy movies when they are used as a springboard for
thoughtful conversation (rather than just a time killer).
Much of my favorite music is traditional Celtic dance music. I play
a tiny bit of Irish penny whistle and occasionally make valiant
attempts to play folk songs on my ukulele.
I like home-cooked, whole-grain vegetarian foods (although I'll
sometimes eat meat if I shot it myself or I know the person who
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A sense of what's sacred
Dreams for the future
Work that feels worthwhile
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to make my Tiny House even more incredibly awesome.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Cuddling with my Love, driving to another state to teach wilderness
skills workshops, or going to bed early.
You should message me if
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You are a woman (transwomen welcome).
You can spell, capitalize, and punctuate appropriately.
You know how to have fun without alcohol or drugs.
Unsatisfied with the usual quiet desperation, you are actively
chasing down your dreams.
Who are you looking for?
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