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99bartholomew

48 Santa Monica, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:00pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism
Sign
Cancer
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
$150,000–$250,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
In the recent past, I've written a few different self summaries that I thought were interesting, witty, clever, fun, sincere and seemed like they would get the attention of the right women. (see example, below) Sure, I've heard from a lot of women and have even met a few in person a few times. Unfortunately, just not the right women. It's pretty easy to meet people out and about, as well as on line. The problem I'm having, and assume you're having, as well (because, if it were so easy to meet someone special, you wouldn't need to be on line dating either) is; it's unbelievably hard to find someone you want to enter into a real, meaningful, genuine, long term relationship with, or even go out with more than once. I would love more than anything to be in that type of relationship.... with one, healthy, smart, fit, unpretentious, down to earth, beautiful, warm, sexy, affectionate, low drama, adventurous, great woman, who I have tremendous chemistry with. But it hasn't been easy to find her. Am I being too picky? Do I expect too much? I don't think so. I don't want to settle for just anyone and I'm guessing you won't either. I'm a solid, responsible, fun, good natured, successful, hard working, healthy, fit, warm, affectionate, genuine, down to earth, loving man. I will give my whole heart to the right woman and treat her like a princess in every way possible. I just have to find her. If any of this resonates with you, please write to me and let's see what happens. I look forward to hearing from you.

The word “amazing” seems to be used by most everyone to describe everyday, or typical things one encounters on a daily basis. I’m sure you've heard your share of stories that people tell, using the word "amazing" to describe something that’s actually fairly common. Well, I am on a search for the truly amazing things on the planet. I feel I owe it to myself to identify, search for, find and experience the truly amazing. I don’t need to jump out of a plane or climb a mountain (even though I have) to discover something amazing. I tend to believe amazing things can be discovered almost anywhere. Where ever these amazing things are, I want to find them and feel what it’s like, and remember that feeling for the rest of my life. At the end of each day, all we're left with is experiences and memories. That's it. Those things can make us better, more fulfilled and happier people. (That's assuming the experiences were positive ;) However, I prefer not to have great experiences and discoveries and create these memories on my own. Certainly, sharing an amazing discovery or experience with someone makes it that much more amazing and memorable. So, before I can hunt down all of the truly amazing things that exist on earth, I first have to locate an amazing partner to join me on this life changing journey. Unfortunately, so far, it hasn't been easy to find you. Nevertheless, I'm sure you're out there somewhere and I'm going to keep searching until you're found. As for the type of woman I find attractive… she’s got a down-to-earth attitude and knows how to get the most out of life. She’s creative and active, both mentally and physically, enjoys the outdoors, natural food, and a hike once in a while. Well, that's what I'm in search of. I appreciate you taking the time to read my profile.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work for myself out of my home, so I am free to come and go as I please. I work hard at my businesses but still find time to go out, have fun, exercise, and peruse my other interests, like music, working out , the mountains and traveling.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Judging character, listening, being supportive and patient.
I can prepare real food. I got tired of eating cereal and pb&j and figured out how to make healthy and delicious meals. I don't consider myself a chef or even a cook, rather, a survivalist. ;) I now believe that if you can read you can cook. I get recipes on line and they actually taste pretty good. I'm a pro level musician and composer. I'm good at other things, too. You'll just have to find out first hand what those skills and talents are.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
humor, sincerity, openness and humility.....
plus, I'm physically fit :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: East of Eden- Movies: Silver Streak & Rocky- Music: Bruce Springsteen (I like his classic work best) TV: Californication ( I don't watch much TV, but like this series) Food: I eat everything and (almost) anything... but mostly healthy style... not too much fried stuff, please.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
great friends and close family relationships
music: listening/composing/playing/performing/recording
Steinway pianos
working out/running/hiking
the mountains
the company of an (amazing) intelligent, beautiful, affectionate, loving, fit, emotionally stable woman
dogs
Sorry, that's sort of more than 6.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why it's so difficult to meet a great woman in L.A.?... and where to meet them? Well, I think about a lot of other stuff, too. But, I've already described all of that, above.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either out with friends, playing music or hanging with my kids.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm open to on-line dating.
You should message me if
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You want to meet a loyal, energetic, fun loving, fit, successful guy who knows how to treat a woman the way she deserves to be treated and who doesn't play games.

PS: If you like my profile, please don't just hit the "like" button because I'm not a paid member of the site, so I won't know who is liking me, and won't be able to respond. Better yet, please go ahead and send me a message. :)