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53 Santa Monica, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 34–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 31
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Dropped out of university
Sales / Marketing
Has kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Let me start off by saying that if you tell me you are from, or are currently visiting, or about to travel to, West Africa or Ghana, please don't bother to write to me or respond to me if I write to you. I've heard from so many "women" who show they are from Los Angeles on their profile, but when they write, they say they are on vacation or visiting their families in Ghana. Come on...How many Americans, especially women, are vacationing in Ghana? Obviously, there's something just a little fishy about this. I'm not here to waste your time or mine. I'm looking to meet someone great who is also local and real. With that said, let's continue:

In the recent past, I've written a few different self summaries that I thought were interesting, witty, clever, fun, sincere and seemed like they would get the attention of the right women. (I can send you some examples of these profiles , if you're interested) Sure, I've heard from a lot of women and have even met several in person. Unfortunately, just not the right women. It's pretty easy to meet people out and about, as well as on line. The problem I'm having, and assume you're having, as well (because, if it were so easy to meet someone special, you wouldn't need to be on line dating either) is; it's unbelievably hard to find someone you want to enter into a real, meaningful, genuine, relationship with, or even go out with more than once. I would love more than anything to be in that type of relationship.... with one, healthy, smart, fit, unpretentious, down to earth, beautiful, warm, sexy, affectionate, low drama, adventurous, great woman, who I have tremendous chemistry with. But it hasn't been easy to find her. Am I being too picky? Do I expect too much? I don't think so. I don't want to settle for just anyone and I'm guessing you won't either. I'm a solid, responsible, fun, good natured, successful, hard working, healthy, fit, warm, affectionate, genuine, down to earth, loving man. I will give my whole heart to the right woman and treat her like a princess in every way possible. I just have to find her. If any of this resonates with you, please write to me and let's see what happens. I look forward to hearing from you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work for myself out of my home, so I am free to come and go as I please. I work hard at my businesses but still find time to go out, have fun, exercise, and peruse my other interests, like music, working out , the mountains and traveling.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Judging character, listening, being supportive and patient.
I can prepare real food. I got tired of eating cereal and pb&j and figured out how to make healthy and delicious meals. I don't consider myself a chef or even a cook, rather, a survivalist. ;) I now believe that if you can read you can cook. I get recipes on line and they actually taste pretty good. I'm a pro level musician and composer. I'm good at other things, too. You'll just have to find out first hand what those skills and talents are.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
humor, sincerity, openness and humility.....
plus, I'm physically fit :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: East of Eden- Movies: Silver Streak & Rocky- Music: Bruce Springsteen (I like his classic work best) TV: Californication ( I don't watch much TV, but like this series) Food: I eat everything and (almost) anything... but mostly healthy style... not too much fried stuff, please.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
great friends and close family relationships
music: listening/composing/playing/performing/recording
Steinway pianos
working out/running/hiking
the mountains
the company of an (amazing) intelligent, beautiful, affectionate, loving, fit, emotionally stable woman
Sorry, that's sort of more than 6.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why it's so difficult to meet a great woman in L.A.?... and where to meet them? Well, I think about a lot of other stuff, too. But let's save all of that for our first date.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either out with friends, playing music or hanging with my kids.
(2 out of 3 live out of state at college)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm open to on-line dating.
You should message me if
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You want to meet a loyal, energetic, fun loving, fit, successful guy who knows how to treat a woman the way she deserves to be treated and who doesn't play games.

PS: If you like my profile, please don't just hit the "like" button because I'm not a paid member of the site, so I won't know who is liking me, and won't be able to respond. Better yet, please go ahead and send me a message. :)