I'm a pan/poly/switch, if you don't understand though terms or know about B.D.S.M. I would tread carefully as you might bite off more than you can chew.
I've been in the B.D.S.M. scene for about 13 years, for about six of them I worked on a public stage as a sub/Dom. During that time I learned Corporal arts, electric play, and fire play. I have in the last 2 years in a half I started learning bondage arts. I hope to grow my knowledge in the rope arts to include rope suspension. I like decorative work over restrictive bondage, That's not to say I'm opposed to it, just I like fancy knots.
One of my goal here is to hopefully meet a long time playing female Dom that wouldn't mind aiding me as a consultant/mentor, I don't expect her to do it twenty four hours a day but would hope she would make time, from time to time. What I don't need is a Fem/Dom that's never bottomed, I find that attitude to be to controlling and close minded for my tastes. I need a mentor that I can E-mail, call, or get hands on mentoring. I was informally trained and would like to get some formal training to improve, relearn what I know to be better at what I love and enjoy doing. In this case I'm not looking for some one to play with as I find playing and mentoring to interfere with one another and should be kept separate.
As far as people who might want to play with me, there are some things I would like you to know about me. I'm a Safe Sane Consensual player not a Risk Aware. I don't do traditional relationships if I can help it as I have a way of screwing them up. I just don't get the monogamy thing. That doesn't mean I sleep around allot in fact I have a tendency to keep to a few people, to one at a time. I practice safer sex as there's no such thing as safe sex. I base relations on Trust, Honesty, Communication, and Companionship, maintain these four things well and love is the reward and love has many levels and kinds. Sex I find is really something fun to do and not part of relations, in fact sex can aid or destroy relations and is something to carefully decide on. I prefer to sub, but I also enjoy Toping. I'm all ways up to learning or trying something new.
I'm bit of a Discordian and tend to be a bit socialy scatter brained. For example my nick name stands for Nine Tails Warrior Of Man Building a Anarchist Tomorrow, The Nine Tails part come from the nick name for Kitsune the Japanese word for fox and fox spirit. Which has a shape changing and trickster abilities. I'm fascinated with totems and Shamanism and love talking about those types of topics allot. One of my fantasies revolves around clan of the cave bear. I have many fantasies and don't mind talking about them. Feel free to send me a message if you have any questoins or you want get to know me better.
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So sayeth I, The big bad, Da #1 an only, Pope Rev. Gobo Bouldernogin Watchful White Feather of Ninetails Esq. king of the flurbs, The first Crow of the Ragged Crows, Den Lord of the Kitsune of Amtgard, good friend of Coyote, High Priest of the Home of Morton's Evangelists. A.K.A. H.O.M.E., Squired to Sir Shadow and deemed the Anti Christ Of the kingdom of the Rising Winds, now discovered to be a toxic avenger, a ambassador of the burn, and finally last but not least the founding member of B.A.D.A.S.S. Being a dumbass anonymous support system, who's motto is don't be a bad...ass, be badass (bad as in this sense means kick ass at helping others) because I'm a B.A.D.A.S.S. Hail Eris all hail Discordia!
Ninetail's twelve step program from a man who walks the path of a trickster. Coyote, Fox, Raven, and that super sexy, at times psychopathic Bitch Eris had it right.
Note: rule 7 is really reference to mundane things not violence. I really hate having to explain my intentions of what I say to prove I'm not a danger to anyone.
Rule 1: Never ever underestimate me.
Rule 2: Nothing is ever what it seems.
Rule 3: There is fact in fiction and fiction in fact.
Rule 4: Adapt improvise overcome.
Rule 5: Aways know what you are consuming.
Rule 6: When all else fails play dead.
Rule 7: Many problems can be fix with well placed BOOM BOOM figurative and real. Plus fireworks are fun.
Rule 8: Live life like it the last day you'll live
Rule 9: Your not really living till you think "man that was stupid hope I make it of this alive".
Rule 10: The school of hard knocks is the best learning place ever invented. Rule 11: All relationships rely on trust, honesty, communication, and companionship. Failure to maintain these things and the relationship dies. Maintain these things well and love is the reward. Sex can aid or destroy the relationship.
Rule 12: All men are assholes all women are bitches the trick is whether the bitch wants to be with the asshole, and vice versa and this aplies to same sex partners as well.
Rule 13: You never truly know someone until you have either fucked them or fought them.
Rule 14: All you really need to know about me is Food, Fucking, and Fighting. This is both figurative and literal.
Rule 15: Ever one has the right to get fucked. Take that how ever you like. Exception is when it interfears with another's ability to get fucked.
Rule 16: When ills befall you seek a vet, as vets are trained to find what wrong with their patients with out the patient telling them anything. Plus they have more schooling than doctors.
Rule 17: Don't visualize although there are times that doing this is the better option. Do so at your own risk.
Rule 18: How can one learn if one listens with closed ears?
Rule 19: As sad as this might be it is true and unfortunately widely practiced covertly. What follows will piss you off and you can apply it to both sex's plus same sex partners. Understand I don't agree with this only pointing it out. Pretty girls equal pretty pussy, average girls equal pussy, and ugly girls equal pussy when all else fails. It seems the prettier single people are the more likely they are to practice this.
Rule 20: The best way to win over some one is to raise your value through displays of higher value, while lowering their value to just under your value. This is tricky but when done right it will make you the bell of the ball, in a sense mind you. By the way this is also know as peacocking and is totaly normal, just some do it better than others because they understand the rules.
Rule 21: There are no wrong choices only better ones. But hey some times the not so good choices are more fun. Muuuuhaaaahahahahahaha!
Rule 22: You break it you bought it. You always own up to your shit. Don't do it if you can handle the consequences.
Rule 23: Always double tap, as you never know if it will rise and bite again.
FUCK YOUR DAY is the new hi how are you. DRINK MORE WATER is the new fuck off. Words of a unnamed Burner.
Ok due to some good convo I decided to add some thoughts to think on.
I worship Christ, follow Eris, serve Inari, listen to cyote, learn from sky father and earth mother, walk with Buddha, and have a crush on Kali Mah.
See the answer to the great question is so simple we chose to not believe. The reason for existence is so there is a way. As long as you exist there is truly a way, we just don't always see the path.
I often ask people to finish this sentance......Don't become the problem, become the _______. Most reply "the solution" I tell them great answer, want to here mine? Sure is the responce so far. I tell them "dont become the problem, become not the problem, as sometimes trying to be the solution makes you the problem.There are no wrong answers just better ones.
Here one to spin the head.
Funny thing, a lie and a truth are both the same, equal in all ways. Which do you want to believe and which WILL you believe is the choice.
Come one, come all to the handy dandy nifty grifty swift machine, the only machine to go around in one ring of water, yes one ring of water. The only ride you get on some where and land your self nowhere, the only snake cure remedy for boredom......would you like to ride?