You're secure and mature enough to be past the point of playing
games. You want to meet up for a drink (and do so sooner rather
than later) and take it from there, and are confident such a
meeting could be facilitated with relative ease.
On a hipster scale of 1-10 (10 being you're a member of an indie
rock group and stole my grandmother's glasses), you are confident
that you do not exceed a 6.
...Also since I don't know where else to put this, quite a while
back I was in the military. This is not a major or defining aspect
of my life as currently lived, but for a small, but apparently not
insignificant number of the "liberal-minded" ladies on here, this
is a dealbreaker sort of thing that should be mentioned up front.
So if you think that anyone who has ever put on a uniform is a
bloodthirsty lunatic, or has PTSD, or is a right-wing
crypto-fascist...umm I would hate to waste your time, although I'm
sure you are an awesome person.
...sorry if this sounds a bit jaded, but in my experience it is
easier to figure out what won't work on here than what will. If you
are looking for a no bs guy, with a lot of sarcasm, who knows about
(some) stuff and has well defined triceps, give me a shout...or at
least respond to my message.