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54 M Los Angeles, CA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 39–55
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  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 5
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Call me a romantic, but I believe that all things are possible in life and love. Yes, I’ve been around the ol’relationship race track of marriage and yet I'm still optimistic that there’s someone special to share the joy of this crazy thing we call life. Basically, I’m a kind fun-loving guy who easily laughs and who also enjoys the challenges of an entrepreneur; I value the idea of following one’s bliss – what’s your path? I’d love to learn and I’m always happy to share where mine has taken me.

I enjoy all kinds of outdoor activities - especially hiking, camping and playing ultimate Frisbee – really enjoy tossing a plastic disc back and forth on the beach – Hey, go figure? Maybe I was a dog in another life? If you’re thinking, is this guy a sports addict, I can assure you I’m not. There's plenty of time for culture in my life - museums, galleries, movies and theater - especially summer Shakespeare in the park - LA has plenty to offer.

My interests are eclectic. Generally speaking, in terms of interests, there is precious little that I won't see, read or listen to at least once. I’m passionate about cooking and, in particular, making bread. Recently, I've found my way back to yoga - taking classes again reminds me, on a physical and spiritual level, of the ideal of "conscious attention" - a way to walk in the world that I try to travel - not always with success but something to strive for in every moment.

Other things I like to do...well, what jumps out are taking in a good movie, listening to music in small venues and always appreciating the quiet time to just read a good book or the Sunday paper in bed - it's always tough to find the space and place for this kind of quiet down time but it's restorative and good for the soul - there's something magical about sharing this kind of space with someone you're intimate with...kind of a shared, yet personal, experience...sort of delicious if you know what I mean.

As far as politics and values go, I lean toward the left-hand side of the radio dial and if you get the humor of Monty Python, Kids in the Hall, Second City or old SNL episodes then you’ll kind of get me. As for my values, remember, I’m the kind of guy who says, “the glass is always half-full!” – I even believe that, with the help of a good and kind woman, I will learn how to properly dance one day!!

On a more intimate level, I’m a pretty simple man. For me, the company of friends and family is what feeds my soul. Speaking of feeding, nothing makes a more satisfying day than going on a hike, to the beach or some urban adventure followed by an evening cooking, enjoying an adult beverage, conversations and good times with the people I love. It generally doesn't get much better than that! Ok, maybe it does…how about a romantic walk in the moonlight, sensuous kisses, a loving massage and waking up late in a sweet dreamy state after a blissful night together…magic moments all.

So who am I looking for? Well, needless to say, someone special who has some similar interests . This magic woman is a positive and generally fun-loving person who is secure in her own world. She has a sense of adventure, dares to dream and is passionate about life and love. She's the kind of woman who is able to give as well as receive love; someone I can be silly with and who can make me smile yet someone I can turn to for emotional support. She is someone who, like me, seeks a relationship that will grow and blossom into something special. I'm looking for someone to share the journey - mine, hers and, ultimately, ours!
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to live a kind, generous, loving and happy life...that's pretty much the path. The day to day stuff involves gourmet food, urban planning, communications and (at this moment) some electric vehicles...go figure?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
hmmm....really, do I have to say? Ok, I like to think I'm good at listening, asking good questions and being present...I'm pretty handy around the kitchen and I've been told that I mix a good drink as well...quite probably there are other things that I'm "good at" but I'll let others be the judge of that.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music? Ecclectic, for sure. From Dylan to the Dead, from Motown to Swing my playlists are all over the map. As for tv, I indulge in the guilty pleasures that HBO offers, Larry David, True Blood and Game of Thrones to name a few. Movies: Well, contemporary-wise, pretty much anything the Coen Brothers have to offer is worth seeing and I'll never get tired of Casablanca; Currently reading, The Dude & The Zen Master + A Short History of Nearly Everthing - That's a start!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, the company of good friends, passionate love-making, good food, unsolicited smiles and did I mention love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think a lot about a lot of things...sometimes I try to let it go and find the space between the, that's way deep...even for me!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It varies but after a long week it would be nice to just hang share the evening with those that I'm closest to...friends old and new (is that you?). Perhaps an evening with some good food, wine some good conversation or just video to ease away the work week...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Ahhh, whatever happened to cherishing the sense of mystery; the journey towards discovery; the longing to know; the vale of the unknown...I think that it will remain as such - at least in this box; better to share and discover through personal interaction, don't you think.
You should message me if
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Well, I suppose you should message me if something about my profile made you stop or pause for a brief moment and think...hmmmm, maybe this guy is worth getting to know. I look forward to hearing from you or perhaps discovering you in this virtual land of meeting new friends.