First, let me say I am only interested in guys my own age. I am also really only interested in chatting with local guys who are single. this means that if you are still legally married, i apologize but please wait to msg me until the divorce is final. I am not interested in casual sex. I am not interested in maintaining internet-based relationships.
my "body shot" is there to show that yes, i really am that pasty, and yep, i am also pudgy... i can't help it that i'm also busty, and no matter what i wear, that will be extremely evident.
I don't play games, and I'm blatantly honest. I seem to be running into a lot of guys who seem to assume that after a single date i'm expecting some sort of major commitment... This is NOT true... i do, however, expect if things go well a chance to see if things will continue to go well... and that we'd take things day by day.... If that's tooo much of a commitment for you, then we weren't meant to be I guess....
And now for the "self summary":
I like to read, play my xbox 360, and spend time with my friends... I'm actually a very quiet person, not big on the whole club/bar scene... really mostly a homebody... and I have 2 cats
So, I will admit that i'm complicated and confusing at times. I am generally a strong and independant person; i can be agressive at times, passive at others. I start off quiet and shy, as i'm an introvert, but i come out of my shell once i'm confortable in a situation. My family and friends are very important to me. I am very smart, and because of my job and training am fairly perceptive; but because i generally want to believe the best about people i end up feeling like a fool all too often. I am a geek and gamer, and i will warn you now, i am a fangirl- squees will happen without warning. I also have a warped sense of humor, and will crack a joke on myself as quickly as anyone else will.
I am smart, snarky, and crafty