First, let me say I am only interested in guys my own age. I am also really only interested in chatting with local guys who are single. this means that if you are still legally married, i apologize but please wait to msg me until the divorce is final. I am not interested in casual sex. I am not interested in maintaining internet-based relationships.
my "body shot" is there to show that yes, i really am that pasty, and yep, i am also pudgy... i can't help it that i'm also busty, and no matter what i wear, that will be extremely evident.
I don't play games, and I'm blatantly honest. I seem to be running into a lot of guys who seem to assume that after a single date i'm expecting some sort of major commitment... This is NOT true... i do, however, expect if things go well a chance to see if things will continue to go well... and that we'd take things day by day.... If that's tooo much of a commitment for you, then we weren't meant to be I guess....
And now for the "self summary":
I like to read, play my xbox 360, and spend time with my friends... I'm actually a very quiet person, not big on the whole club/bar scene... really mostly a homebody... and I have 2 cats
I am a study in contrasts, I'm a feminist, yet a Lady; a geek and a gamer; passive at times, aggressive at others; I start off quiet and shy, yet extroverted when I'm comfortable in a situation; I have a warped sense of humor, and will crack a joke on myself as quickly as anyone else will; intelligent; strong and independent, yet like to have someone to rely on every once in a while, I'm kinky, I'm geeky, and love to chat with my friends on my xbox, the list goes on and on...
I am smart, snarky, and crafty