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37 F Frederick, MD

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:02pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First, let me say I am only interested in guys my own age. I am also really only interested in chatting with local guys who are single. this means that if you are still legally married, i apologize but please wait to msg me until the divorce is final. I am not interested in casual sex. I am not interested in maintaining internet-based relationships.

my "body shot" is there to show that yes, i really am that pasty, and yep, i am also pudgy... i can't help it that i'm also busty, and no matter what i wear, that will be extremely evident.

I don't play games, and I'm blatantly honest. I seem to be running into a lot of guys who seem to assume that after a single date i'm expecting some sort of major commitment... This is NOT true... i do, however, expect if things go well a chance to see if things will continue to go well... and that we'd take things day by day.... If that's tooo much of a commitment for you, then we weren't meant to be I guess....

And now for the "self summary":

I like to read, play my xbox 360, and spend time with my friends... I'm actually a very quiet person, not big on the whole club/bar scene... really mostly a homebody... and I have 2 cats

So, I will admit that i'm complicated and confusing at times. I am generally a strong and independant person; i can be agressive at times, passive at others. I start off quiet and shy, as i'm an introvert, but i come out of my shell once i'm confortable in a situation. My family and friends are very important to me. I am very smart, and because of my job and training am fairly perceptive; but because i generally want to believe the best about people i end up feeling like a fool all too often. I am a geek and gamer, and i will warn you now, i am a fangirl- squees will happen without warning. I also have a warped sense of humor, and will crack a joke on myself as quickly as anyone else will.

I am smart, snarky, and crafty
What I’m doing with my life
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Great job providing support as a care coordinator for Medicare patients
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
crafting and gaming- I quilt, sew, embroider, knit, crochet, make jewelry, cross-stitch, needlepoint, make dream catchers... etc.... I just can't sit still for very long....

I work with my best friend each year to update and make a complete garb wardrobe for her and her little ones... the kids keep growing and they regularly outgrow their gsrb for Pennsic War each summer. Havent gone myself, I tend to stick around close to home to help out my parents because they aren't as mobile as they used to be.

At the moment I am working on sewing projects :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My snarkiness... I tend to have a problem keeping my big mouth shut....
On top of that, i'm pretty bluntly honest... have a big problem with dishonest people and if i catch you at it, you WILL know i have, and i WILL be pissed. I'll be honest with you, always, so you better damn well be honest with me.
Next it's usually that i generally have some sort of craft project with me that i'm working on.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like sci-fi movies, tv and books.... comedies, action, and mystery movies are also cool, but if you're going to ask me to watch the new Star Trek vs. American Pie, Star Trek will win EVERY time.... I am a big big firefly nerd.... Some authors I like are Steven R. Green, Jim Butcher, Laurell K. Hamilton, Karen Chance.... really they too numerous to count... mostly sci-fi/fantasy

Also, I do not do horror films... I do, however, like many zombie and vampire type movies... there are just certain ones i can't do, and if I do watch some of the truly scary ones, well, let's just say that I have to plan on being awake for a while.... with all the lights on.... for hours....

Additionally i am a big gamer, preferbly board and xbox 360 games, though I have been known to play Diablo 2 on the PC and other PC games. I own copies of Catan, Risk, Killer Bunnies, Scrabble and Yatzee, just for starts... Fave xbox games include the Elder scrolls series, CoD series, the Halo Saga, Mass Effect series, Bioshock saga & Beautiful Katamari.

I get bored very easily, and all of the above keeps me from losing my mind.... sometimes you can find me engaged in multiple activities, just to keep from being bored.... ie, knitting while reading inbetween matches on my xbox..... yes, I can multitask :p and yes, if I'm in CoD:Black Ops or Halo: Reach I'm prolly crafting AND gaming while i chat with my friends....

I like chocolate, and pasta, and fried seafood.... I like to eat... though I must admit, I'm not a fan of sushi...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Okay, so i'm not going to limit myself to just 6:
books, crafting supplies, games, my laptop & the internet, my cats, my family & friends are all important to me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

Family/Friends- lots going on with my family/friends health-wise and in general, so they are almost always on my mind... but, that's almost... :)

Once i'm done thinking about that.... i'm then wondering about what i want to make next.....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
My weekends are usually entirely up in the air lately.
I could be at home or with family/friends, but usually i've got a craft project with me. If i'm with my parents, we're watching a movie and having dinner. If i'm with my friends we're either chatting or gaming :) If i'm home i'm often on netflix while getting caught up on things and crafting in some way :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Not a big drinker as my life was significantly affected by my grandmother being an alcoholic for about 26 years of my life... I've seen what heaving drinking can do to families, and it's NOT pretty... so I just don't see the appeal.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
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*you are legally single- mwaning everything is filed AND you have met the states required period of separation
* not looking for casual encounters, something convenient or a NSA relationship
*you're looking for an equal
*you within an hour drive away at most
* you are atleast 30 years old- the age parameters are a HARD LIMIT, and I will not make exceptions.

Being with someone, having a good relationship to me means give and take on both sides, and a mutual respect. It means being there when times are tough to provide moral support. I would really love to find someone who is in for the long haul, and will give as good as they get, good and bad....

And please to goddess don't just message me to tell me you like my pictures. please give me something with some substance to respond to.

If you msg me and are less than 30 DO expect snark. I am fed up with having to tell younglings that age is an important factor as it reflects on a certain level of life experience. Also, its just creepy to me... my baby brother is 29. It would be like dating a child in my mind and there is no way you will convince my brain otherwise.