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49 F Citrus Heights, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 36–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jun 7, 2010
Black, White, Other
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Christianity, and very serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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There is only one Race It's Human! ~ Everything else is Culture!

I am many ethnicities: Norwegian, Black, Swedish, English, German, and Dutch. What race am I supposed to date? How about someone from the human race?

I am a confidant, loving, and passionate woman. Although many men say that is what they are looking for, I think being self reliant scares them off. A man's money does not impress me, nor does his car, or his material possessions. What does impress me is how he treats me, others around him, and his relationship with God. I don’t need a man to take of me and I don’t want a man that cannot take care of himself. What I do need is a companion, a helpmate, a best friend, a confidant and a man that wants the same from me. Is that too much to ask for?

I am most passionate about Christ. Without Him I am nothing. Has my life been perfect? Far from it! But my past and all that I have been through in my life has made me who I am. I like who I am and I am secure in that. I do not judge other people by my past or theirs; I take each person on his/her own merit and who they are. I do judge character not circumstances.

I am Happy, Loving, and Loyal
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a computer geek. :-) A database Administrator, programmer and a trainer. 7/12/09 - I just got my class M and now looking for a bike. I let you know what kind I get!
7/17/09 - I just purchased a new street bike. It is a Yamaha V Start Silverado 1100 Classic. Do you have a bike? Want to go for a ride together?
12/09 - Well, guess I won't be riding anymore. Had an accident on the bike and crushed my right leg. They had to amputate at the knee. I’m now in a wheelchair and looking to get a prosthesis soon.
5/10 - Got my prosthesis and started walking on my own around the house the very next day. It's nice to stand again. I guess I've learned to appreciate the little things.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at Being a friend! Now getting around in my new chair.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile. I am a very happy person. Happiness is a choice. I choose to be happy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
For fun: I love to dance. I like to bowl, go to movies, dinner, play darts, swim, rafting down the American River. I go to Bayside church. I love the worship time especially Lincoln Brewster.
I love to read. The last books I read were the Left Behind Series.
I like most foods, espeically ethnic food. I like most music, Music: I listen mostly to Christian music, but I can also be seen bumping to a little Reggae, R&B, Soul, or Jazz (sometimes even a Show tune or Musical). For quiet times I like a nice Classical or Christmas music no matter what time of the year it is.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. God 2. Christ 3. Holy Spirit 4. Bible 5. Prayer 6. Best Friend
I would like to not live my whole life without love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

The strength of a man isn't seen in the width of his shoulders. It's seen in the width of his arms that encircle and protect you.

The strength of a man isn't in the deep tone of his voice. It is in the gentle words he whispers.

The strength of a man isn't in the words he speaks. It's in how he keeps his word.

The strength of a man isn't how many buddieshe has. It's how good a buddy he is with his or "your" children.

The strength of a man isn't in how respected he is at work. It's in how he is respected at home.

The strength of a man isn't in how hard he hits. It's in how tender he touches.

The strength of a man isn't in the hair on his chest. It's in his heart....that lies within his chest.

The strength of a man isn't in how many women he's loved. It's in whether he can be true to the ONE woman he's trying to love.

The strength of a man isn't in the weight he can lift. It`s in the burdens he can carry.

The strength of a man isn`t in how much food he eats from your table. It`s in the effort he puts forth when you are unable.

The strength of a man isn`t in how he makeslove. It`s in the understanding that there is more to making love......than making love.

A strong man puts God first; family second; and his work third.

Is a Strong man too much to ask for? One that puts God first and me second?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either dancing, watchin a movie on my Home Theater System (the 73" TV is great!), or sitting on my hot tub watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a pretty open person, but maybe I should keep a little mystery!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are a good Christian man and are looking for a good woman that will stand by you and love you for a lifetime.