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30 M Salt Lake City, UT

My Details

Last Online
Apr 14
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Sold my car, getting around on a bicycle forever.


Used to be married, it was weird, divorced now.

I'm an optimist in my heart, but I don't want people to think I am. I have a bone to pick with trust.

Seen a lot of things, and visited a lot places; I've done a lot of awesome, and mundane things, some of them allow me to feel accomplished.

I just spent the vast majority of my 20's in the U.S. Army, and now I am a former infantryman, just recently turning 30, and I am back in college, forging a future hellbent on success. I'm going to make my 30's the 20's again, but with the knowledge gained. It's going to be awesome.

Not so long ago, I made a major lifestyle change. Just recently I was able to sell my car, and now I am now a bike commuter, and I love it; it has changed my life drastically, in the best way possible!

As far as my spiritual leanings, I generally adhere to a science based agnosticism, unless we're speaking of Unicorns, because they totally exist.
What I’m doing with my life
I spent the majority of my 20's in the U.S. Army, as an Infantryman, I have been to both Afghanistan, and Iraq, both combat intensive deployment, and both of them left a lasting impression that has helped me learn a lot about myself, the people around me, and the world.

Fast forward to now, and I am cashing in on my Post 9/11 GI Bill on your dime to go to college again at the University of Utah for Counseling Psychology, albeit with a niche goal; I want to eventually get a M.S in the same field, wrestle with the Department of Defense to let me deploy (as a civilian) overseas, to help combat soldiers on the spot, amidst a war.

I feel if I can help with decompression, I can stop PTSD before it even starts. It is somewhat of a tall order, but it is my goal.
I’m really good at
* Pretending to blow things up with my mind.
* Being an expert amateur at a lot of things.
* Hurting people's feelings.
* Take pictures of people candidly.
* Using words to wax poetic.

Of the latter, here is some of my crapola:

The first things people usually notice about me
Tall, dark, beard, broad, tattooed, fucking awesomeness leaking out of my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My top 3 favorite authors are Iain M. Banks, Michael Crichton and varied works by Stephen King.

My favorite movie director is Danny Boyle’s and I love his film "Sunshine" the most. I'm huge fan of George Clooney, Ben Affleck's directorial stuff, and I adored Christoper Nolan's Batman Trilogy.

I really like The Newsroom, Boardwalk Empire, Game of Thrones, House of Cards, and Cowboy Bebop.

As far as music goes, I'd be hard pressed to find something equally important in my life. Have a look at my Last.FM @ - It tracks all the music I listen too.

For the most part I don't agree with a lot of what Nietzsche said, but he did say one thing the best: “Without music, life would be a mistake.”
The six things I could never do without
1. My bike
2. My insatiable lust for music
3. Macbook
4. My bike
5. My prose
6. Strava
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to dodge the next hole/bullet/runaway bus (all metaphors)
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably the same thing many other people do. I'm out hanging with friends, and as the weather becomes warmer, I'm out cycling on my bike more during nights.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Combat isn't as terrifying the second, third, fourth, fifth, sixth, etc.. time.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
-- You're a bike commuter as well, avid cyclist, or want to go on many bike rides with me!!!
-- You want to teach me many, many things and learn many, many things from me.
-- You're willing to challenge the patriarchy that rules our American society.
-- The words feminism, immigration/immigrants, liberal/libertarianism aren't on your list of things ruining America.
-- You have a sarcasm detector (because I do not want to hurt your feelings, just kidding, yes I do.)