Just spent the last 8 months or so travelling/living in my gypsy wagon school bus. (spent most of that time in New Orleans)
I tend to be a blend of sweet, laid back, spontaneous, and spiritual with intense, fiery, fiercely opinionated and motivated.
Things that describe me... I'm a nature lover, an herbalist witch, a personal interior art designer, a costume/clothing designer, a Virgo organizer (when it suits me), a sensualist, a spiritualist, a chef, a performer, an aerialist, sometimes a comedian (especially when on stage), a care-taker as well as an independent woman.
While I'm happy to spend a quiet Saturday afternoon tooling around at the house, making yummy food (or herbal elixers or homemade meads), sewing or in my garden... I also do a good bit of traveling...
I like to do yoga, acroyoga and circus stuff and study esoteric arts.
I don't have any kids but I'd like one...
I know who I am, what I want, what I don't want.
That said, I want to be really super clear about what I'm looking for here on okcupid. While I can be a bit flexible... please understand that I am really looking for someone within my own age range and relative social scene.
I'm 37. I don't really want to date someone who's in their early 20's or their 50's. Really somewhere within the 33-45 range.
As for the "social scene" thing... Yes, part of me is professional, but I am also alternative, artistic, circusy and a bit on the freaky side. If you are generally a pretty "normal", mainstream, run-of-the-mill kindof guy, you're probably not what I'm looking for. Although, like I said, that can be a little bit flexible... but come on. Don't write to me if you don't really think that we'd be a reasonable match. I get far too many messages from sweet men who mean well and are very nice... but I think that they already know that they are not the type of guy that I would go for... (it's nothing personal... I just know who's my type)...and yet they message me and then I have to feel like a rude person for not writing them back.... I don't wanna be rude. I just don't have a lot of interest in going out with men who are my father's age or who would have nothing in common with me.