Things that describe me... I'm a nature lover, a personal interior art designer, Virgo organizer, a sensualist, a spiritualist, a chef, a performer, an aerialist, sometimes a comedian (especially when on stage), a care-taker as well as a fiercely independent woman.
While I'm happy to spend a quiet Saturday afternoon tooling around at the house, making yummy food (or herbal elixers or homemade meads), sewing or in my garden... I'm also just as likely to be on a road trip headed for some giant performance at a festival, with lists of things to do and other projects on my lap while planning world domination, making snacks for everyone with me and, playing dj and marveling at the nature all around. Yes... all of that at the same time...
I guess I could be called a lil bit of a go-getter and a multi-tasker extraordinaire. People often wonder how so much power and energy can be packed into such a tiny person... :)
I know who I am, what I want, what I don't want.
That said, I want to be really super clear about what I'm looking for here on okcupid. While I can be a bit flexible... please understand that I am really looking for someone within my own age range and relative social scene. I'm 35. I don't really want to date someone who's in their early 20's or their 50's. Really somewhere within the 28-45 range. As for the "social scene" thing... Yes, part of me is professional (I hold a real job with a non-profit), but I am also alternative, artistic, circusy and a bit on the freaky side. If you are generally a pretty "normal", mainstream, run-of-the-mill kindof guy, you're probably not what I'm looking for. Although, like I said, that can be a little bit flexible... but come on. Don't write to me if you don't really think that we'd be a reasonable match. I get far too many messages from sweet men who mean well and are very nice... but I think that they already know that they are not the type of guy that I would go for... (it's nothing personal... I just know who's my type)...and yet they message me and then I have to feel like a rude person for not writing them back.... I don't wanna be rude. I just don't have a lot of interest in going out with men who are my father's age or who would have nothing in common with me.
Also should let you know....
I'm on OkCupid to take my first steps of delving into the world of dating again. I am recently out of a sweet and beautiful relationship where we have loved each other dearly but just couldn't make it work. That said, I am now interested in experimenting with different relationship styles so I can continue to learn some other ways of relating that I truly desire.
I ask that you please be respectful that I am newly returned to the dating scene and I will want to take things slowly.