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30 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:56pm
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Pretty well rounded guy here. I grew up on the West Coast, went to college in Oklahoma and moved to NYC eight years ago. Traveling has always been a love of mine (though that's taken a hit with nursing school). Been to few countries in Europa and a couple in Latin America. My interests are varied. No two conversations are the same. I could talk about all things Bravo, ESPN, and CNN without missing a beat. Huge sports fan here and try to get to sporting events a few times a year. Really big on kitschy day trips to little towns in the Hudson Valley.

Healthcare is not only my career but a passion of mine. Daily, I get to advocate for my patients to big bad insurance companies. I kick ass and take names.

My family means the world to me. Yes, with an Italian mom, I am a big mama's boy. And yes, my family and I might sound like we are fighting on the phone. But it is all love...most of the time :) I am an uncle and love it. I miss my babies.

Really NOT into "the scene" be it gay or straight. Not a huge drinker and party person. Nor do I need to go FIP or P-town to prove that I am gay. Spirituality is important and I'd like to think I have a relationship with God.
What I’m doing with my life
As mentioned earlier in my profile, I work full time in a hospital in Inpatient Psychiatry, so if you want to get a few days off work, I can tell you what to say to get admitted! Just living the "Girls" broke NYC lifestyle :)

In addition, I go to nursing school. One more year left! I eventually want to work for an organization like Doctors without Borders and do humanitarian medical missions.
I’m really good at
getting into heated Facebook debates, nursing school (sarcasm), keeping it real, and throwin' shade, shouting at the TV during sporting events, and quoting the Golden Girls (ALL 7 seasons, biotch)
The first things people usually notice about me
Welp, people have told me that I smile with my eyes, meaning that I have a big smile. So, I guess that would be it!

Socially, people would notice that I am the one that "brings the kiki" (Friends words not mine LOL)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Reading Material: Dead Aid, Crime and Punishment, End of Prosperity, The Economist, The Idiot.

Movies: Gone with Wind (how gay), Schindler's List, Volver, Women on the Verge of Nervous Breakdown, Disney Movies (do not judge) Drop Dead Gorgeous, First in Show, North by Northwest, Psycho, basically a lot of Hitchcock, All About Eve, Witness for the Prosecution, Memoirs of Geisha, Lincoln, What's Love Got to Do With It (no shade).

Music: Ciara, Beyonce, Lil Kim, Jay-Z, Bjork, Sade, Nicki Minaj, En Vogue, Toni Braxton, Kelly Rowland, David Guetta, Prince, Diana Ross and the Supremes, Adele, Sergio Mendes, Wynter Gordon, Katy Perry, Thalia, Janet Jackson, Kirk Franklin, Cece Winans, Brooklyn Tabernacle Choir, Marina and the Diamonds, Emeli Sandé

Shows: Real Housewives of ATL, NJ and OC. Sports Center, The News, Golden Girls, Lakers games, True Blood, Six Feet Under, I Love Lucy, Scandal! American Horror Story (Coven only lol)
The six things I could never do without
FaceTime (so I can talk to my nieces)
Dessert (Seriously how I'm NOT a diabetic astonishes me)
Passion (for life, family, SOMETHING!)
Sunny Weather (It just puts me in a good mood)
God (No explanation needed)
Power Ballads (My concert is playing nightly in my Harlem apt)

Why do soooo many people put the "gym" in this category? Really? It's not that serious.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
When nursing school is OVER!

Why people "pick" or "like" you on this Quickmatch thing, then don't answer when you send them a message? Hmmmm

What should I sell (including my body) to get to my much needed international adventure! (I really won't sell my body as an FYI).
On a typical Friday night I am
For the next 4 months, my clinical rotation at the hospital. Exciting, right?!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I will freak out and jump on shit to get away from a bug, mouse, etc. That's all you'll get out of me for now :)
I’m looking for
  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 28–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you're a bottom or bottom leaning. (Just keeping it real).

You are NOT racist, express idiotic racial stereotypes, etc.
**Addendum: if your answer to strongly wanting to date your own race is YES and you're not Latino (my ethnicity), don't bother. You're technically not into me anyway.

You're a sports fan (Giants, Lakers, college football lover ++)

Being sentimental and cheesy is cute to you.

Traveling to new lands excites you :)

You can cook LOL...because I can't haha

You have any suggestions on how to improve my profile LOL

If you have a drinking problem, like to go out and party every weekend, or every OKC picture you have a drink in your hand, please DO NOT message me. We are NOT a match. (Yes I am a boring old fogey who believes I don't need to be drunk to be fun)

PSS: Don't message me if you're into that open relationship thing. I don't play that shit ;)