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ADrumNamedPaul

26 M Norwalk, CT

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–27
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 16
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am a nerd, and a geek, therefore I can get excessively passionate about certain things. I can go off on a tangent related to various subgenres of metal (and why metal is NOT all the same goddammit!), the pros and cons of various (programming) languages, and how cool are 3D printers. Seriously! How cool is it I can just design something super quickly, and just print it out. It's like magic!

I'm an engineer, and so I rely heavily on logic and reason for everyday activities. I also want various technologies, and devices that I will never use. I once bought two Raspberry Pis, and they're still sitting on my desk, unbuilt, because I can't decide what to do with them. Oh well. I will one day do my best to own a Tesla.

I am a musician, and I love everything about it. I love going to shows, jamming out with other people (although real life seems to be getting more and more in the way of this), exchanging new songs and cds with other people.

I am a reader. I try to read 1-2 books a month. Recently I've realized there are so many classics that I haven't read, so I'm currently making my way through things like Vonnegut, Asimov, Herbert, Tom Clancy, and the likes.

Most of all...I am just me. Cliche, yes I know, but hey. It's the truth.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm currently just working as a Software Engineer, at a financial research company. That pretty much takes up most of my free time. When I do have free time, I generally break out the drums and guitar and jam out with some co workers.

When I'm not doing any of the above, I try to work on a variety of software/hardware projects. And when I'm not doing any of that it's video games or netflix, or reading.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I've been told I'm a pretty good and dependable friend. Telling completely inappropriate jokes, at times when it is not totally inappropriate (I can do that much).

Also problem solving. I love trying to fix things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I try always to maintain a positive outlook in life, with jokes, and a sense of humor. I'm quick to laugh, and slow to anger, and fairly forgiving for the most part.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books : A Song of Ice and Fire, Wheel of Time, 1984, Brave New World, Kingkiller Chronicles, LotR, and many others. I absolutely love reading. I'm currently on a sci fi binge, and I'm working my way through Dune, and all of Asimov.

Music. I listen to almost anything. A little bit of everything from Jazz (Benny Goodman, Buddy Rich), Punk (Bouncing Souls, Blink 182) Metal (Iron Maiden, Opeth, Lamb of God), Prog (Dream Theater, Symphony X), Chill (Mezzamine, FC Kahuna), Hardcore (Modern Life is War, Comeback Kid), Post rock (Explosions in the sky, Russian Circles), and many others

Movies: I can generally make myself sit through almost anything. Yes even romantic comedies. I do prefer action, horror, sci fi, and comedies though. I'm pretty heavily hooked on Breaking Bad, Dr. Who, and Archer at the moment at the moment.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music
Friends
Family
Computers
Books
And this world.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What if scenarios.

If a raptor was to start chasing me, what should I do?

What would happen, if I opened a can of Pringles, and the pop...just never stopped. It just pops, and creates a black hole.

Pirates or Ninjas?

Gandalf or Dumbledore?

How do magnets work?

Who is going to survive in the sixth book of ASoIaF? Is [REDACTED] still alive at the end? I NEED TO KNOW!

Stuff like that.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm either at a bar, concert, movie, making music, building crazy electronic contraptions, video games with friends, watching netflix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My sole goal in life is to one day own a Corgi.

I've recently come into a scuffle with a table. It is.... ambiguous as to who won, but scars were left on both parties. We've since made up and became friends.
You should message me if
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If you have an answer to any of those things I think about.
Or if you just want to talk. That's ok with me as well.