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AEagleForces

25 / M / Straight / Seeing someone

Ellicott City, Maryland

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I know this guy in real life and he is one of the most genuine people I have ever met. He's goal-oriented, fun loving, intelligent and respo... read more

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Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Dislikes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently)

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My Self-Summary

Hi there. My name is Ray. I am 25, working two jobs, and going to grad school. I like to dance, work out, and be active both in and out of the classroom (I teach). I spend the rest of my free time outside, with my dog Shadow, and spending quality time with friends. You will seldom find me in front of a TV (Unless it's a Baltimore Ravens game). BTW-- If you are a Raven's fan.. we will click very well!

Currently, I am a teacher in Baltimore City, but I am not from Baltimore. I grew up in Little Rock, Arkansas, so my southern personality comes out at times. I am warm and welcoming. Back in Arkansas, everyone knew everyone, and we hugged instead of shaking hands. If you grew up in Maryland, this is impossible for you to imagine. Southern hospitality is a magical thing.

I enjoy meaningful conversations with intelligent people. Stupid people annoy me. Impolite people annoy me as well. If someone says hi, the rule is to say hi back. No exceptions (Okay, unless they are missing teeth and/or they are chewing tobacco..).

Putting myself in this text box is a bit impossible. If you read this far, write me. Who doesn't like to get mail?!

***If I just randomly message you to compliment you, or to make a comment about your pictures.. that's just who I am. Not because I am romantically interested! I just enjoy making someone's day.. and I enjoy breaking the ice:)***

What I’m doing with my life

Working in Baltimore City as an educator full time.

Going to Loyola University for my graduate degree as a Reading Specialist.

Rec Sports are nice in the summer!! (Volleyball)

I also coach sports at a local gym!! Practically volunteering.. but it is a good time!!

Planning on getting my second graduate degree before I turn 35.

I’m really good at

Sports, cooking, dancing, standing out in a crowd, working with students, teaching, dog training, volleyball, and offering sincere advices.

I am also really good at being on time.

I am also really good at replying back to emails/messages! It actually gets on my nerves a little when people wait four days to reply ;)

The first things people usually notice about me

My smile! (That's what Niki and Linh tell me anyway..)

I have a big voice...

My J.Crew attire.

What else..? You tell me!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Angels and Demons, Outliers, Blink

Movies: Con Air, God Fathers One, Gran Turino

Music: Avant, Neyo, Musiqsoulchild, IYAZ

Food: Italian Food, Healthy foods, Steak!!

I like to read non-fiction. These include cooking, DIY books. I also enjoy reading any book about dogs and dog training. I watch the Dog Whisperer religiously (on DVD). I read all of Ceasar's books.

I haven't seen many great movies recently, but I do love the shows The Unit, Dexter, Hustle, and 24.

On most days, I prefer cooking at home instead of going out to eat. High sodium/MSG isn't my thing. I worked at a gym, therefore a healthy living style is very important to me.

The six things I could never do without

Shadow (My dog)

Family (My own and the Wades!)

IPod(s)

Comfortable and fashionable sneakers

Graphic Ts, Designer jeans

Intelligent conversations (and by intelligent, it means that you watch the news!)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

How/why do people in government agencies sit and drink coffee all day and get paid more/equal to the rest of us?

Why we are often taxed without representation.

Why the best looking people are always 30+ minutes from me?

Why Delaware couldn't be closer? (refer to item three)

Why we need a piece of paper to say that we are qualified? Shouldn't our actions be enough?

On a typical Friday night I am

Out dancing, watching a movie, or getting together with friends.

Sleeping after a long week sounds like a good idea too :P

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have a soft spot for black dogs. They are the least likely dogs to be adopted and rescued..

If you have room in your heart/living space, go to a local shelter and adopt a black dog TODAY! :)

*Oh, and my dog Shadow is a total chick magnet*

You should message me if

You live somewhat close to my area, you don't like to play mind games, and we complement each other. You are a bit older than me (I find most girls my age somewhat incompetent..)

You must know how to drive! (Literally and figuratively!)

You are okay with being pen pals/friends first, then something more.

Btw - I am definitely not tall. So if you want a man to be 6'1.. I am not the one:)