Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"When you are in the final days of your life, what will you want?
Will you hug that college degree in the walnut frame? Will you ask
to be carried to the garage so you can sit in your car? Will you
find comfort in rereading your financial statement? Of course not.
What will matter then will be people. If relationships will matter
most then, shouldn't they matter most now?"
- Max Lucado
I own my own home in Joliet and have a son that is my #1
I really enjoy football and the Bears are my team. I also enjoy
different types of games. I love hockey too and was a fan before
the Black Hawks were good. Board Games, Cards, Role Playing,
Computer, etc etc. It goes with the territory of raising my son.
Judge me all you want but I'd rather be playing games and enjoying
time with my son then going to some hole in the wall bar and
What I'm looking for:
Someone to share inside jokes with, fall asleep with while watching
a movie. Someone to share warm soft kisses and hold hands with not
because we have to, but because we can't stand not to. Someone who
can talk about anything with me. Who shares some of my interests,
but has their own too. I want to be in the kind of relationship
that is warm and fun and lasting.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Taking care of my son.
Currently in the process of going back to school. I teach guitar
but want to continue my education not only to get a supporting day
job, but to expand my knowledge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't know, I will ask next time I bump into a stranger.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I don't read much.
I have read the Lord of the Rings books. Hitchhikers Guide to the
Galaxy was awesome! The book was. The most recent movie was kind of
blah. The original ones from the early 80's are so much fun to
watch. I have them on DVD.
I can honestly say there really isn't a genre of movie I won't
watch. I have my preferences but I'm open. I was in film school for
a few years. Don't be surprised if I analyze the movie.
My favorite genre would probably be 80's hair metal. Just a fun
time for music. I'm not going to list everything else.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I can't list six things, I own 11 guitars and last I checked 11
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm tired of being Duckie, I want to be Blane. Kudos if you
understand the reference.
My biggest problem would be I spend too much time thinking. Leads
to some long boring nights of insomnia. See..
What do I do when I break or use up a stick of deodorant after
using it on one arm pit and find out my new deodorant is a
different scent? Oh the humanity!! What key is this song is in?
What are the notes of that key? Where are they located on the
fretboard? Are there are a bunch of butterflies out there with
tattoos of women on their lower backs? Did I leave the stove on?
Dude, where is my car? If you are traveling at the speed of light
in a really fast car, would your headlights work? Just why is 42
the answer to life, the universe and everything? If women want
respect and don't want hook ups then why use a thumbnail of a close
up of your cleavage? Did I remember to check for traps? Where is my
pick? No not that one, the other one. This song is in G: G, A, B,
C, D, E, F♯, G. Relative minor of G is B. I'll loot the room. Okay,
I'll stop. I think something is burning.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday night is game night in one of my local gaming groups. Again
judge me all you want but it sure beats going out and getting
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are bored. Why is it so hard for people to just reply saying
you are not interested?
You want to make a new friend. I am at a time in my life where I
value friendship. Once a solid friendship has been built, a
relationship can be built upon it. I am in no hurry. If you can
handle that I am a widower. My wife passed away almost four years
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