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36 Joliet, IL Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 12:20pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Rather not say
Mostly anything
Not at all
Other, and laughing about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Has a kid, and wants more
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Ladies please stop with the duck face and the feet pictures. It isn't sexy and is annoying.

I own my own home in Joliet and have a son that is my #1 priority. I am me, and if you can't accept this then move on. I expect honesty above all. If you are not interested then say so.

I REALLY enjoy football and the Bears are my team. I also enjoy different types of games. Board Games, Cards, Role Playing, Computer, etc etc.

My favorite color is yellow, I like home made dumplings, I want to lose some weight, I play guitar (sure you can see them behind me in my pictures), My hair color is fake, but the length is not and I'm honest about everything.

What I'm looking for:
Someone to share inside jokes with, fall asleep with while watching a movie. Someone to share warm soft kisses and hold hands with not because we have to, but because we can't stand not to. Someone who can talk about anything with me. Who shares some of my interests, but has their own too. I want to be in the kind of relationship that is warm and fun and lasting.
What I’m doing with my life
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Taking care of my son.

I just got my tax ID for my guitar teaching business.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't know, I will ask next time I bump into a stranger.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't read much.
I have read the Lord of the Rings books. Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy was awesome! The book was. The most recent movie was kind of blah. The original ones from the early 80's are so much fun to watch. I have them on DVD.

I can honestly say there really isn't a genre of movie I won't watch. Except porn. No thanks.

My favorite genre would probably be 80's hair metal. Just a fun time for music. I'm not going to list everything else.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm tired of being Duckie, I want to be Blane. Kudos if you understand the reference.

I'm also wondering if there are a bunch of butterflies out there with tattoos of women on their lower backs.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm Batman!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are bored. Why is it so hard for people to just reply saying you are not interested?


You want to make a new friend. I am at a time in my life where I value friendship. Once a solid friendship has been built, a relationship can be built upon it. I am in no hurry.