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54 M Asheville, NC

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–53
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:59am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Other, and laughing about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them

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My self-summary
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I recently got back from my friends wedding, where said friend married a women he met on OK Cupid. Its true, and gives me optimism that I can meet the last true love of my life here. Although I am basically happy and content in my life, I would love to have someone special to share it with. I know you are out there. We just need to meet.

I tend to be an active person. Things I like to do, and would enjoy doing with someone special, include taking hikes to see a beautiful view, going on bike rides, wandering down mountain roads, being near the ocean, and watching the sun set. I haven't traveled nearly enough recently, so that is always a goal. On the other hand, I also enjoy going to a nice place to eat and watching a movie. I like to go out and listen to live music, I play music myself, and love to dance. Eating healthy, and keeping myself physically fit is important to me, and I am looking for someone who does the same. I do enjoy cooking with someone else. I try to be a gentleman and will open doors for you, and hold hands in public. Honest and open communication is very important to me. I am not into drama. Mostly I like to laugh and have a good time, and not take myself too seriously. I am laid back, adventurous, progressive, environmentally oriented, peaceful type of person, who treats people with kindness and respect.
What I’m doing with my life
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I try to be a good person, be kind to friends and family, and people in general. I am a mental health and substance abuse counselor in private practice.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
This is pretty subjective, but being a therapist, I hope I am a good listener and communicator. I think that I am a pretty good friend. I laugh easily and make people laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Dont know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like ethnic food a lot. No favorite books aside from things I use for counseling professionally, although I have read several Bill Bryson books, starting with A Walk in the Woods. I love all kinds of music, jazz, swing, bluegrass, 60s rock. I watch the Daily Show and the Colbert Report pretty regularly.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family and friends
Running and hiking shoes
Time spent outdoors
Good healthy food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'll have to think about it
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It depends on what is going on. I might go out to a great place to eat, walk around town people watching, and to a club to hear music. I might make a nice meal at home and watch a movie. I might drive up to the parkway and drink a glass of wine and watch the sun set over the mountains. I might sit and play music with friends or by myself.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Maybe not so private, but I used to hitchhike a lot in my youth, hitched across the country 12 or 13 times.