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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:33am
White, Other
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English, Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
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I like finding new ways to play, traveling, listening, gummy vitamins, laughing myself sore, group hugs, being silly, laughing out loud at my own absurd thoughts, intentional communities, and great adventures.

I'm passionate and compassionate. Like everyone, I've got my quirks. I love the romantic idea of hiking the Appalachian Trail, but I don't actually like long backpacking trips. I love the idea of meditating, but sometimes find it hard to actually sitting down and meditate.

I grew up in Brooklyn, went to undergrad in Vermont and Spain, went to grad school in Miami, and feeling really lucky to be living in such a conscious, quirky, and endearing city.

I'm also very grateful to be living with six awesome roommates. Communal living is an exciting, heart stretching, immersive social experiment that keeps me growing.

Think we'd get along? Message away. I don't bite... anymore (see "the most private thing I'm willing to admit" section for more on this).
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a Clinical Psychologist, currently working as a therapist at an outpatient clinic. I'm also staying physically active, going to fun gatherings as often as possible, and growing roots in the bay area.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening, playing, hugging, wrestling, therapizing, and remembering song lyrics.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've been told by people that they notice my smile and that I'm outgoing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: Band of Horses, Josh Ritter, Andrew Bird, The Avett Brothers, The Wood Brothers, Iron & Wine, Eddie Vedder, Bon Iver, Van Morrison, Weezer, Jack Johnson, Dave Matthews Band, Dispatch, Joni Mitchell, Paul Simon, Crosby Stills Nash and Young, Beatles, Bob Dylan, Bob Marley, Vampire Weekend, and Bill Withers.

Movies: Adaptation, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Inception, Being John Malkovich, I Heart Huckabees, Sideways, Fight Club, 50/50, Good Will Hunting, Great Expectations, Garden State, What Dreams May Come, As Good As it Gets, Beautiful Girls, Swingers, Amelie, 12 monkeys, Braveheart, Lord of the Rings, Matrix, Almost Famous, American Beauty, Before Sunset, Grosse Pointe Blank...

Books: A New Earth, The Art of Loving, A Connecticut Yankee in King Arthur's Court, Siddhartha, A Brief History of Everything, The Book On the Taboos Against Knowing Who You Are, Hunting For Hope, A separate Peace, Lord of the Rings, Walden, The Little Prince, Poems by Hafiz...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
best friends, laughs, sincerity, good movies, good music, and touch.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Personal growth, how to get more vulnerable and spontaneous, the meaning of life, the human psyche, and which animal I would most like to have as a miniaturized sidekick (update: this has been decided. [Giraffe]).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I was five my friend was throwing poppers (those legal fireworks that pop on impact) around the bus. I asked him if I could have one to throw. He said no. I just HAD to have one, so I told him that if gave me one I'd pop it in my mouth. He gave me one and I bit it... it popped... smoke came out of my mouth. I had to scrape black soot off my teeth, and my ears were ringing the whole way home.

In kindergarten, while having arts and crafts, my friend Danny stole my clay and started running away. I "took chase," jumped on his back, and bit his neck. I got suspended. My mom had to pick me up and I wasn't allowed to play my atari humpty dumpty video games that whole day. The moral of the story is to not bite people, and I haven't bitten anybody in weeks!
You should message me if
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you're authentic, kind, friendly, open-minded, progressive, warm, and affectionate. You have some interest in spirituality or believe in some kind of higher power. You like communicating your feelings and you are able to communicate anger and frustration constructively.