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AJDefined

28 M Los Angeles, CA

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The older I get the more at peace I start to realize I am. I'd consider myself a unique soul. I'm inspired and always have been since I was a kid. With that I've been fortunate to achieve most of what I've set out to do for myself.

I've been living here in LA for close to eight years now and it's been, and will probably remain to be, the most important eight years of my life.

I have a wide circle of great friends, somehow it seems to continue growing, and the best family a person could ask for. They'd all love it if I weren't on this site, to be honest, (lol) but we'll just keep it between you and I that I'm on here. What's the harm in trying?

I'm confidently introvert but almost all of my friends are extrovert, lol. It gets exhausting but I somehow manage.

My favorite days are spent doing something spontaneous and many times outside the apartment. Long drives with no destination or walking through an undiscovered neighborhood, going to a movie (alone or not) with no preconceived knowledge of it being "a hit." I'm not one for saying no or ignoring a call late at night to go do something new or fun, just because. We only live once...

While all these things are really great what's even greater is sharing it with another person.

Let's make it happen :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Sitting back and trying to figure this out myself... lol

I have a Bachelor's of Science in Game Art & Design and working as a background artist for games.

Get to know me and I'll share what I've worked on.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting half that darn toothpaste on my shirt when I brush in the morning. Someday I'll get this right!

Discerning people, listening and letting a person be themselves without judgement.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That toothpaste didn't come off my shirt very well and I wore it anyway, lol

jk

I've got a bright smile and a deep, bold voice
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: (I love my Kindle)
Just finished Frankenstein, in between reading Dracula, Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World that Can't Stop Talking, Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway, Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglas, The Art Spirit, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, Dean Koontz - From the Corner of His Eye, The Adventures of Alice in Wonderland, The Power of Now, True Happiness from the Inside Out, Mindset

Movies:
Zero Dark Thirty, The King's Speech, Lincoln, Flight, Man on Wire, March of the Penguins, The Godfather, Jaws, Shawshank Redemption, The Shining, Crash, Toy Story, Paranormal Activity, Halloween

If you like horror movies, or could be talked into watching them, meet me at the alter in a white dress ;)

Music:

alt-J, Bibo, Bonobo, Kanye West, Sleigh Bells, Pete Rock & CL Smooth, The Roots, Common, Tribe Called Quest, Talib Kweli, M83, Miles Davis, Com Truise, Purity Ring, Neon Indian, Iron & Wine, Django Django, Madlib, The Doobie Brothers, The Allman Brothers Band, David Sanborn, Daft Punk, Sigur Ros, Hans Zimmer, John Williams, Radiohead, Pantera, Metallica, etc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. People (Although I'm introvert I love being around people)
2. My family! (Come on now)
3. Music
4. Shazam (Sometimes you just gotta know what the name of that song is, lol)
5. Computers (no, I won't fix yours)
6. Challenges (Anything worth while in life will not come easy)
7. A glass of scotch whiskey (Because I can't just stop at 6)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What a person's MBTI (personality) is, people's energy, sounds, shapes, colors, composition, and self improvement
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Always ending up with the responsibility of figuring out where my friends and I are going for the night and them saying "I don't wanna go there."

SOMEONE ELSE CHOOSE! lol
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Me? Ticklish? Pfft...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–29
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're exciting, but not intense
Spontaneous
You're deep
You're drama free
Will share your plate
You don't cringe at the thought of Disneyland
You reach in your pocket for the needy, if you have it
You can make me wonder why someone like you would need this tacky site, lol