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36 Toronto, Ontario, CA Man


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Last online
Nov 20
5' 9" (1.75m)
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Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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The hardest thing about this entry is what order to put things in—anything I put first will sound like I think it's the most important thing about myself. So I'll start with the stipulation that these are in no particular order:

I'm a dialectologist. I've loved both maps and pronunciation my whole life and have been lucky enough to get into the field where I get to think about both professionally—if only I could find a tenure-track job.

I'm from Massachusetts; I moved to Toronto two years ago after 10 years in Philadelphia, and I'm slowly getting to know the city.

I'm a performer. It's hard to find time to actually get on stage now, but you can always find opportunities to perform in some way, even just among friends. I'm a better actor than I am a singer, but I like singing more.

I'm a geek; I'm a puzzle solver; I'm an unexpected extrovert; I'm a distributor of peppermints.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to find my way in academia, and/or decide if that's where I want to be finding my way.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The first thing people notice about me is usually that I've got a pencil behind my ear. (You never know when you might want one!)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Apparently I don't spend a lot of time ranking books and movies with respect to each other to decide which ones are my favorites. Well, my favorite book of all time has to be Charlotte's Web; The Little Prince ranks very high as well; and beyond that I might add in Amy's Eyes, much Thurber, Pratchett, some Stephenson—possibly the Baroque Cycle—and maybe A Song of Ice and Fire standing in for a lot of fantasy/SF.

Movies is a little harder. Maybe Beauty and the Beast, the Rhapsody in Blue segment of Fantasia 2000, Contact, The Great Muppet Caper, Amélie, maybe Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Spirited Away?

The only TV show I really watch regularly is Jeopardy! (and Game of Thrones when it's on); all-time favorite shows include The Muppet Show and Star Trek: Deep Space Nine. I want to interpret "favorite shows" though as meaning favorite Broadway shows, in which case my favorites include My Fair Lady, Fiddler on the Roof, Guys and Dolls, and In the Heights, among I suppose many others.

Favorite music, relatedly, is largely showtunes; also very fond of klezmer and I have a soft spot for the Grateful Dead and other '60s–'70s rock.

Favorite foods: Fresh mozzarella and basil. Gelato. Hot chocolate from Burdick's, in Cambridge, Massachusetts. Spaghetti sauce with a lot of mushrooms and peppers. Corn chowder. Grapefruit. The Thousand-Layer Bread from the Burmese restaurant in Philadelphia. Peppermint.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Hot chocolate with peppermint in it; public library card; showtunes; easy access to maps; crossword puzzles; occasional hugs. (Also semicolons?)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Vowels and language change. Wordplay and puns. Puzzles and games. Songs for a New World. Occasionally, fighting sexism in geek culture.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Cooking dinner at home, and then probably seeing a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Experiences are best shared. If I see something beautiful, I don't feel like I've really seen it until I've shown it to someone else too, or at least told them about it.