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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:36pm
6′ 6″ (1.98m)
Body Type
Christianity, and very serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have been on here for a little while now and noticed a couple of things that if changed? Could help out when people look at your page we go!
1. Could you at least act like you read some of what I wrote instead of sending an email that consists of only "hello" or "hi how are you?" lol I need a little more please :-)
2. If you put up a group picture, could you be kind enough to describe where you are in the photo?
3. This is a dating web site, you are trying to find a date...putting pictures of you up hugging on another guy? Not the best way to promote why you are here lol. We don't know who that person is and YES I do know women who readily admit that was a picture with their ex. smh A simple explanation would be nice.
4. If you are here to promote yourself? Why run the risk by putting up pictures of you with other women in them? You may think you are the cutest one in the picture...but other guys may not.....PHOTOSHOP.
Now I always thought this, but I thought it was just me...turns out that it's actually one of the biggest "no, no's" to online dating!
No matter how tall you say you are or what body type..if you only have head shots as pictures? Guys will think you are hiding what body type you truly have (this goes both ways ).
Fishlips/Ducklips are NOT I repeat NOT cute or even close to sexy. I promise you most men feel this way.

Now, I guess I can start by explaining why I am here. As an attorney I have a pretty serious job, so to stay in balance I love to relax and be silly and just laugh when I am not at work. I am a "practicing" Christian, meaning, I don't just talk about it...I "be" about it! I am part of my choir, praise and worship team, very involved at my church. God is first in all that I do and I do not make any serious decisions without consulting him first.
Also, let me tell you right now so those who are interested for the wrong reasons can move on to the next profile; I am abstaining from having sex anymore until I am married!

Okay, for those of you who are still here lol. I am all about communication and I am very, very honest...almost to a fault. My parents have been married for over 48 years and I use them as my example of what I should look for in a relationship since that is what has worked for them. That is also why I am family oriented and cannot wait to have one of my own. I enjoy going out, but equally enjoy staying in, I'm the type that is pretty much happy doing anything as long as it's with the one I care for ;-).

I take relationships very seriously and because of that, I take them very slowly, I don't date for entertainment, if I like you, it is for more than "going out" it's because I see something in you that I could spend the rest of my life with. If I don't see that, why bother? Been there and done the whole dating for fun thing, ready to settle down with the right one so lets get to know each other and find out if it's you!
Stay Blessed!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to help those who cannot afford to help themselves...I am a Criminal Defense Attorney for the Department of Public Defense.
I am also focused on using more of my talents in my Church.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Volleyball, basketball, bowling, singing, coaching, cooking, cars, riding my motorcycle, my job, communicating, listening, sarcasm, making people laugh, being forthcoming, being honest, and cuddling
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height and my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Too many tv shows to DVR is usually going non stop lol
Movies: Any as long as they are sci-fi and horror, but will go to a chick flick if it's a good one.
Music: Gospel and R&B
Books: The Bible, Purpose Driven Life, Five Love Languages Singles addition, Vampire Chronicles by Anne Rice, and the whole Hunger Games series by Suzanne Collins.
Favorite foods is Medium Rare Prime Rib, Fried Catfish and Buffalo wings..the hotter the better!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, My bible, my motorcycle, my cats Macaroni and Cheezy (do my cats count as two??), my cell phone, my laptop/tablet, bluetooth headset (would have said God but NONE of us can do without him..whether you believe it or not!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Who am I gonna ride with since I left my bike crew in Wisconsin?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out on my bike, Home, Church, or out with friends
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You understand that it is incorrect to answer the question "most private thing you are willing to ADMIT" with "it's private" or "it's personal" smh....
You answered the question in the question section: STALE is to STEAL as 89475 is to....
correctly. lol. Okay....maybe that's too harsh since i have seen NO ONE to this day that has answered it right. (and if anyone thinks I answered it wrong then I guess you have found our first topic of discussion! ;) lol.
You know that if you "like" a non paying member, or rank them with stars, they will never know who you are (like me!)

Now if you have no idea what I am talking about this here is an exception:

You know how to have fun and laugh at yourself! Are willing to at least take one slow ride on the back of my motorcycle around the block. Have a relationship with God, and don't mind trying to stay in shape! And of course...can deal with cats, you don't have to like them per se...but they don't bother people who don't want to be bothered lol