I have been on here for a little while now and noticed a couple of
things that if changed? Could help out when people look at your
page so....here we go!
1. Could you at least act like you read some of what I wrote instead of sending an email that consists of only "hello" or "hi how are you?" lol I need a little more please :-)
2. If you put up a group picture, could you be kind enough to describe where you are in the photo?
3. This is a dating web site, you are trying to find a date...putting pictures of you up hugging on another guy? Not the best way to promote why you are here lol. We don't know who that person is and YES I do know women who readily admit that was a picture with their ex. smh A simple explanation would be nice.
4. If you are here to promote yourself? Why run the risk by putting up pictures of you with other women in them? You may think you are the cutest one in the picture...but other guys may not.....PHOTOSHOP.
Now that I have cleared the air :-)
UPDATE:
Now I always thought this, but I thought it was just me...turns out that it's actually one of the biggest "no, no's" to online dating!
No matter how tall you say you are or what body type..if you only have head shots as pictures? Guys will think you are hiding what body type you truly have (this goes both ways I found out).
Question:
Why do the "Quiver" matches always seem so "off" from what you normally like to date? And why is it when you search on your own or browse on your own you find people who fit your profile better but have never been in your quiver?
Now, I guess I can start by explaining why I am here. As an attorney I have a pretty serious job, so to stay in balance I love to relax and be silly and just laugh when I am not at work. I am a "practicing" Christian, meaning, I am part of my choir, praise and worship team, at Church every Sunday and try to hit Bible Study on Wednesdays. God is first in all that I do and I do not make any serious decisions without consulting him first. Also, let me tell you right now so those who are interested for the wrong reasons can move on to the next profile; I am not having sex until I am married!
Okay, for those of you who are still here lol. I am all about communication and I am very, very honest...almost to a fault. My parents have been married for over 60 years and I use them as my example and that is what has worked for them. That is also why I am family oriented and cannot wait to have one of my own. I enjoy going out, but equally enjoy staying in, I'm the type that is pretty much happy doing anything as long as it's with the one I care for ;-).
I take relationships very seriously and because of that, I take them very slowly, I don't date for entertainment, if I like you, it is for more than "going out" it's because I see something in you that I could spend the rest of my life with. If I don't see that, why bother? Been there and done the whole dating for fun thing, ready settle down with the right one so lets get to know each other and find out if it's you!
Stay Blessed!
1. Could you at least act like you read some of what I wrote instead of sending an email that consists of only "hello" or "hi how are you?" lol I need a little more please :-)
2. If you put up a group picture, could you be kind enough to describe where you are in the photo?
3. This is a dating web site, you are trying to find a date...putting pictures of you up hugging on another guy? Not the best way to promote why you are here lol. We don't know who that person is and YES I do know women who readily admit that was a picture with their ex. smh A simple explanation would be nice.
4. If you are here to promote yourself? Why run the risk by putting up pictures of you with other women in them? You may think you are the cutest one in the picture...but other guys may not.....PHOTOSHOP.
Now that I have cleared the air :-)
UPDATE:
Now I always thought this, but I thought it was just me...turns out that it's actually one of the biggest "no, no's" to online dating!
No matter how tall you say you are or what body type..if you only have head shots as pictures? Guys will think you are hiding what body type you truly have (this goes both ways I found out).
Question:
Why do the "Quiver" matches always seem so "off" from what you normally like to date? And why is it when you search on your own or browse on your own you find people who fit your profile better but have never been in your quiver?
Now, I guess I can start by explaining why I am here. As an attorney I have a pretty serious job, so to stay in balance I love to relax and be silly and just laugh when I am not at work. I am a "practicing" Christian, meaning, I am part of my choir, praise and worship team, at Church every Sunday and try to hit Bible Study on Wednesdays. God is first in all that I do and I do not make any serious decisions without consulting him first. Also, let me tell you right now so those who are interested for the wrong reasons can move on to the next profile; I am not having sex until I am married!
Okay, for those of you who are still here lol. I am all about communication and I am very, very honest...almost to a fault. My parents have been married for over 60 years and I use them as my example and that is what has worked for them. That is also why I am family oriented and cannot wait to have one of my own. I enjoy going out, but equally enjoy staying in, I'm the type that is pretty much happy doing anything as long as it's with the one I care for ;-).
I take relationships very seriously and because of that, I take them very slowly, I don't date for entertainment, if I like you, it is for more than "going out" it's because I see something in you that I could spend the rest of my life with. If I don't see that, why bother? Been there and done the whole dating for fun thing, ready settle down with the right one so lets get to know each other and find out if it's you!
Stay Blessed!
