Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have been on here for a little while now and noticed a couple of
things that if changed? Could help out when people look at your
page so....here we go!
1. Could you at least act like you read some of what I wrote
instead of sending an email that consists of only "hello" or "hi
how are you?" lol I need a little more please :-)
2. If you put up a group picture, could you be kind enough to
describe where you are in the photo?
3. This is a dating web site, you are trying to find a
date...putting pictures of you up hugging on another guy? Not the
best way to promote why you are here lol. We don't know who that
person is and YES I do know women who readily admit that was a
picture with their ex. smh A simple explanation would be
4. If you are here to promote yourself? Why run the risk by putting
up pictures of you with other women in them? You may think you are
the cutest one in the picture...but other guys may
Now I always thought this, but I thought it was just me...turns out
that it's actually one of the biggest "no, no's" to online
No matter how tall you say you are or what body type..if you only
have head shots as pictures? Guys will think you are hiding what
body type you truly have (this goes both ways ).
UPDATE PART II:
Fishlips/Ducklips are NOT I repeat NOT cute or even close to sexy.
I promise you most men feel this way.
Now, I guess I can start by explaining why I am here. As an
attorney I have a pretty serious job, so to stay in balance I love
to relax and be silly and just laugh when I am not at work. I am a
"practicing" Christian, meaning, I don't just talk about it...I
"be" about it! I am part of my choir, praise and worship team, very
involved at my church. God is first in all that I do and I do not
make any serious decisions without consulting him first.
Also, let me tell you right now so those who are interested for the
wrong reasons can move on to the next profile; I am abstaining from
having sex anymore until I am married!
Okay, for those of you who are still here lol. I am all about
communication and I am very, very honest...almost to a fault. My
parents have been married for over 48 years and I use them as my
example of what I should look for in a relationship since that is
what has worked for them. That is also why I am family oriented and
cannot wait to have one of my own. I enjoy going out, but equally
enjoy staying in, I'm the type that is pretty much happy doing
anything as long as it's with the one I care for ;-).
I take relationships very seriously and because of that, I take
them very slowly, I don't date for entertainment, if I like you, it
is for more than "going out" it's because I see something in you
that I could spend the rest of my life with. If I don't see that,
why bother? Been there and done the whole dating for fun thing,
ready to settle down with the right one so lets get to know each
other and find out if it's you!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to help those who cannot afford to help themselves...I am a
Criminal Defense Attorney for thr Public Defender's Office.
I also am focused on using more of my talents in my Church.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Volleyball, basketball, bowling, singing, coaching, cooking, cars,
riding my motorcycle, my job, communicating, listening, sarcasm,
making people laugh, being forthcoming, being honest, and cuddling
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Too many tv shows to count...my DVR is usually going non stop
Movies: Any as long as they are intriguing...love sci-fi and
horror, but will go to a chick flick if it's a good one.
Music: Gospel and R&B
Books: The Bible, Purpose Driven Life, Five Love Languages Singles
addition, Vampire Chronicles by Anne Rice, and the whole Hunger
Games series by Suzanne Collins.
Favorite foods is Medium Rare Prime Rib, Fried Catfish and Buffalo
wings..the hotter the better!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, My bible, my cats Macaroni and Cheezy (do my cats count as
two??), my cell phone, my laptop/tablet, bluetooth headset (would
have said God but NONE of us can do without him..whether you
believe it or not!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where am I going to live when I Start work in Seattle in August????
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home, Church, or out with friends
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You understand that it is incorrect to answer the question "most
private thing you are willing to ADMIT" with "it's private" or
"it's personal" smh....
You answered the question in the question section: STALE is to
STEAL as 89475 is to....
correctly. lol. Okay....maybe that's too harsh since i have seen NO
ONE to this day that has answered it right. (and if anyone thinks I
answered it wrong then I guess you have found our first topic of
discussion! ;) lol.
You know that if you "like" a non paying member, or rank them with
stars, they will never know who you are (like me!)
Now if you have no idea what I am talking about this here is an
You know how to have fun and laugh at yourself! Are willing to at
least take one slow ride on the back of my motorcycle around the
block. Have a relationship with God, and don't mind trying to stay
in shape! And of course...can deal with cats, you don't have to
like them per se...but they don't bother people who don't want to
be bothered lol
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