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AJMajulio

28 Glens Falls, NY Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:58am
Orientation
Straight, Sapiosexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Status
Single
Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
When it comes down to it, I'm looking for someone that can make me happy and who I can make happy in return. Compatibility is key. Our qualities, personalities, and outlooks don't need to be exactly the same. They just need to mesh well. We don't need to have the same exact interests and do the same exact activities. I'd much prefer it if we didn't do all of the same things, as long as we're both open to new experiences. Relationships are about growing together, learning new things, and teaching each other. Those who are closed to taking risks and having new experiences bore me. Being content with the things you already enjoy is perfectly fine, but that doesn't mean you can't try new things. Having a few similar interests and activities is , of course, helpful.

I'm not looking for someone to complete me. I'm a whole person all by myself. Ideally, we would compliment each other. Improve upon each other's strengths, and cover for each other's weaknesses.

I've got no Myers-Briggs letters for you to read, and you should see why: http://www.vox.com/2014/7/15/5881947/myers-briggs-personality-test-meaningless?utm_medium=social&utm_source=Facebook&utm_campaign=voxdotcom&utm_content=Saturday

I am at the same time, a rule follower, and one who delights in challenging assumptions. Stick with the things that work. Be rid of those that don't, especially if they hurt people. And yet, there's plenty of things that I cling to that aren't great. I'm hardly ever a fan of when someone challenges me on something, but it needs doing. People should not be afraid of doing so. It makes me think. Forces me to try and come up with reasonable explanations and formulate arguments - brain work. If I'm wrong about things, then someone ought to tell me as much.

I'm a huge proponent of balance and moderation. For me, almost nothing is completely off limits, but I try to avoid going overboard as well. Express your anger at the injustices of this world, but do not let it rule your life. Do not shy away from violence when violence is at your door, but do not forget there are other ways to handle situations. Defend the weak. Uphold the true virtues. Understand that perfection can never be, but you should strive for it anyway. Everyone is human and to be human is to err. It's whether or not you learn from the mistakes you make.

I'm a generally curious person. I have an interest in many things and people. If I ask about something, I'm likely being genuine. I actually do want to know, and it isn't born out of malice. I only bring it up because the easily upset and offended typically jump straight to that. It's very tiresome. Learn to give a person the benefit of the doubt before getting all bent out of shape. You'll find that life will become far more bearable and far less taxing.

I have a tough time staying angry with anyone, even those that have done me the most harm. Forgiveness isn't always easy. Neither is letting go. I'm getting old *rolls eyes*. I just don't have the time or energy for staying mad. I don't even want to be mad.

Age isn't of huge importance to me, but I do find there's a point at which things are likely to not work out. 18 and 38 are my outer limits, 10 years on either side. More than likely, someone between 23 and 33 would be more compatible with me. However, I won't put a hard and fast limit on things on the off chance that I do find someone that I do well with who doesn't fall within expected parameters.

I don't believe in one-night stands. You are not a conquest, you are a person. I'm not keeping a tally. If things progress to such a point on our first encounter or our eighth, then I'm going to want them to keep progressing. I'm not going to pressure you into doing anything sexual. If at any point you feel as though I'm doing that, do not beat around the bush. Ask me to stop. I may throw the idea out there, but I'm not going to make you do anything you don't want to.

Oh, and I do actually have a suit of armor. I have been knighted, but not by a Lord or Lady, so it's not quite official yet. With just a bit o' polishing, guess what that makes me. [I'll have picture proof soon enough. I can't get into the armor alone. it requires a squire.]

There are a few questions I have for you. They are somewhat important.

Question number 1: Do you have a pulse? I'd like to avoid dating the living dead if at all possible. Look, the media have been portraying this "sexy vampire" thing rather falsely. It's all fun and games until you come up a couple of pints short one night and it gets worse from there. Plus, they're not very faithful. They kinda have to get around to get all of the blood they need without killing anybody. It's a rather risky business. You don't know who else's blood they've been sucking.

Question number 2: Do you eat food? I eat food. Food is important. It keeps you alive, and depending on the food, helps keep you in decently well. I take great pleasure in food. I relish trying new and different things, and I especially like ethnic foods. The sheer variety of flavors, textures, and combinations thereof out there is amazing. I delight in cooking as well, though I haven't been doing nearly enough of that lately.

Question number 3: Do you like to do things? Do you like to do things with other people? I like to do things. Things tend to provide a good amount of entertainment, and in some cases, exercise. Some things I like to do are horseback riding, volleyball, classical fencing, martial arts, paintball, bowling, hiking, spelunking, archery, traveling, ballroom and other types of dancing, bicycling, and many more. I don't do any of these nearly as much as I'd like to. It would be a grand time if you'd like to do any of these (or other) things together.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm back in school and getting paid for it! I should have a Bachelors in Business Administration by December. I'm killing it this time and around, and I'm much happier with myself because of that.

I've recently thrown myself into filming. Here's a short that was done for a combat choreography competition. We took 5th place out of 23 entries. I'm not entirely happy with it, but it was the first project that I ran:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kk-0Q6ukOpg&feature=youtu.be

The effects aren't completely finished on it, but it's what we got done before the deadline. The project was a blast to film. However, the blooper reel is where the real magic happens:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IEqnuCnDHMk

I aim to win next year. The grand prize is getting flown out to LA to see the opening of the new Star Wars film at the Old Chinese Theater.

There's another short that still needs to be finished (effects and such), and I just got a part in a short film that's going to be shot in Buffalo in a few months. I'm also slowly learning my way around the DSLR I just bought.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Calming people down and putting a stop to things before it gets too out of hand. Knowing when not to fight is just as important as knowing when to fight.

I'm generally a fairly easy-going and amiable person. I don't have too much trouble getting along with all types of people, and I like to have good times. It might sound strange to hear, but there's plenty of people who enjoy misery over having an enjoyable experience.

Analysis and problem solving.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably my height, unless you're even taller than me. I'm actually 6'1 3/4", but it's just easier to say 6'2".

When it's not summer - The hats and coats I wear (none of which are pictured). A lot of friends and acquaintances easily identify me by my outer wardrobe. My roommate often refers to me as his lawyer.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Just take my word for it that I read an awful lot. I own about a thousand books and counting. The Lord of the Rings is my most favorite.

Movies: I'll watch anything of value. old films, new films, foreign films, domestic films, and even a silent film or two. I'm the most likely to complain at horror films while I'm watching them because they tend to suck. It's like the characters are nearly always chosen from amongst the most incompetent members of humanity. Still, I keep watching them, so I must enjoy bitching about them. I love the Original Trilogy of Star Wars the most, and for many reasons.

Shows: Neflix's DareDevil Agents of Shield, Archer, Arrow, Big Bang Theory, Firefly, Doctor Who, Dexter, The Venture Bros, ...

Music: I listen to at least a little bit of everything, but classic rock is my jam. There's just too damn much to list.

Food: Foooooooooood
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books, Lots and lots of books
Tasty, delicious, wonderful foods
My family ... well ... sometimes, not so much
My friends - Even if we don't get to see each other as often as we like
Art/creativity - It adds so much to life
The majority of my organs in a generally intact state and still attached to me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Anything and everything. I usually read at least a few articles a day.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Game night just got switched to Fridays! A bunch of my friends and I get together almost every week to cook, eat, drink, and play a wide variety of games. We play board games, card games, rpgs, and occasionally a star ship bridge simulator game.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Well, I've already admitted to being not quite 6'2".

Pffft, look through some of the questions I've answered on this site. I don't know any of you. Why did I admit to so many things? Thank goodness I'm not under any kind of investigation ... as far as I know.
You should message me if
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Only if you intend to actually use this to meet people in real life. If you're unwilling to communicate, interact, and meet with new people, then I've got no idea why you're even here.

I was wondering, what exactly constitutes a real man for you? Lot's of women seem to be looking for a real man, but they don't seem too forthcoming about the individual qualities that comprise such a person.

If you're 90% or higher on the Enemy scale, then there's a good chance you're my arch-nemesis. You should write to me so that we can start planning out our epic final confrontation.

If you have any interest at all in ballroom dancing. I've learned a teeny bit and I want to practice and learn more. Having a partner really helps for this.

If you don't understand nude pics either. I just don't see the draw. It certainly isn't a good way to start things off. Since I've started moderating for the site ... yeah, we come across more than a few dick pics ... what's sad is how many are photo shopped in.

If Vegan/Vegetarian cigarette smokers confuse you. I may have even written to some. Doesn't mean I don't get that combination at all. You're not going to eat meat/animal products, but you'll suck down cancer sticks? Why?

I have a mild case of Misophonia, that generally revolves around mouth/eating/utensil scraping noises. If you regularly chew with your mouth open or bite your silverware, things will not work out between us because I will go crazy. No really, it drives me insane. Shivers go up and down my spine. It just can't be the only thing I hear. I know it's weird. I'm sorry. I'm just happy that I only have a mild case of it.

Now, there's something I want to see if you've noticed. Because I am curious to hear what you think on whether or not I was effective. One rule that always pops up when it comes to writing and other creative pursuits is "show don't tell". I'm not going to just say that I'm a funny and humorous person and then offer no proof. What is the point of that? Why would I tell you that I'm an intelligent, and possibly interesting person if I'm really not? With what I've written, I leave you to judge for yourself, instead of me stating that I am these things and hoping you'll take my word for it. So am I full of myself? Astute? Overly demanding? Amusing? Incompetent? Forthright? Deranged? Compatible? Fun? A fool? Active? A braggart? Interesting? Judgmental? Likable? What sort of impression did I leave you with?

If you've read through this entire bloody novel I've got going on here, then you've done me a great courtesy, and I thank you. I hope this read through actually brings you to have more questions than answers as compared to the stereotypical blank slate and a "just ask me anything".