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AKALathana

30 / F / Straight / Single

Cary, North Carolina

Her Details

Last Online
Jun 13
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Pisces
Education
Job
Construction / Craftsmanship
Income
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Well, I'm originally from Houston, Texas. I joined the Navy at 18, was stationed in Goose Creek, SC, Newport News and then Virginia Beach, VA. Got out after 4.5 and moved to NC late 2011.
So, having told people I have lived in both South Carolina and Virginia, I do happen to hear the tree joke rather often.
I like to dance and sing, but don't do either in public anymore until I'm at least 3-4 drinks in.
It doesn't take much to get a smile out of me. I love to have a good laugh and I can be a bit spontaneously crazy. I am not afraid to let loose and just enjoy the moment...even at the risk of a little embarrassment. Life is short to not enjoy as much of it as possible.
I play computer games, currently Diablo 3, a very little bit of WoW (friends made me!), Killing Floor, Skyrim, Team Fortress 2, Dead Island, Red Orchestra 2, Saints Row 3.

I want to see more of the world, and would love to meet someone who is willing to explore with me.
Places I have been:
Dubrovnik, Croatia
Bahrain
Dubai, UAE
Cartagena and Rota, Spain
Cellardyke, Fife, Scotland

Still want to visit:
New York, New York (always wanted to catch Phantom of the opera there), Japan, Australia, Egypt, and well just about anywhere interesting.

I like a guy to be outgoing and attentive, intelligent and funny, I have a thing for musical talent, particularly guitar, piano and singing; also love gamers, explorers and interesting accents, real or faked. I want a guy to have aspirations, dreams and fantasies with the desire and willpower to attempt to achieve them.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm in an electrician apprenticeship with the union, because I like electrical work, the pay is good and I dont have to fill out new job applications each time the contract runs out. However waiting on a new contract can be a true test of financial responsibility.
I’m really good at
Reading. I know it's silly, everyone can read, but I read about twice as fast anyone I've ever met.
Computer games, maybe not the best, but just about any game I pick up I'll be pretty good at.
Making an awkward situation a little more so, also decent at making it better, but it's a 50/50 sometimes.
Looking at words like 'awkward', knowing I spelled them right and still thinking its wrong.
The first things people usually notice about me
I laugh easily. I wear glasses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Terry Goodkind, Melanie Rawn, Piers Anthony, Robert Jordan, Mercedes Lackey, Dennis L. McKiernan, Jennifer Roberson... seeing a pattern here, lets just say 'High fantasy & fiction' and call it good there.

Movies: Robin Hood: Prince of Thieves, Ever After, Boondock Saints, Blade Runner.

Shows: Psych, Burn Notice, NCIS, Criminal Minds, Bastard!, House, 30 Rock.

Music: I like most music as long as it has a good melody and decent lyrics preferably that can actually be understood.
Current Favorites include but change at a whim: Alexi Murdoch, Adele, Gotye, Ben Howard, Lady Antebellum, Elliott Smith, Jon Anderson, VNV Nation, Kings of Leon, Kate Rusby.

Food: I will always enjoy a good steak, bacon wrapped filets being top. Chicken just about any way you can cook it. Cheese... I love cheese.
The six things I could never do without
Music
Steam
Books, actual physical books
My Phone
My Passport

Yea, thats only 5, but I can't think of anything else right now.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where I am going to hole up when the zombie apocalypse comes.
What normal people my age are doing with their life.
Why so many people have pictures of them driving.
Astrophysics.
All the reasons I SHOULD go back to school, and why I haven't yet.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hm, I might be out having a drink by myself or with some friends, or at home doing the gamer girl thing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a 3 foot tall Papa Smurf eating a sandwich on my bedroom door.
I named my car Cara after a character in a book.
TVs with static creep me out, the Ring.... if only it had ended 10 minutes earlier, I would be fine.
I still use IE.
I am actually rather shy, but I fake outgoing so well sometimes even I believe it.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 21–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You meet any(or all!) of the characteristics I said I was looking for.
(You DID read that part, yes?) or you just want to chat.
To be honest I'm more looking for some friends than dates, I don't get out much and would love to meet some people who would like to just hang out, hit a bar together maybe some karaoke. I love concerts but refuse to go alone, I have missed several that I would have loved to go to recently, Roger Waters and Ian Anderson specifically.
Just have something interesting in your message or a decent profile and you'll probably get a response from me.