Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
If you can find 3 differences between the two dolfins in my
picture, please contact me, we may have something in common!
I am a confident, honest, affectionate person, even tempered,
adventurous with a passion for life, fit and young at heart.
The Dating Persona Test calls me "a classic marrying material,”
which is true! Read the description of The Gentleman - that's me.
That brings me to another point: I'm happily married (full
disclosure) - and I'd like to keep it that way. I'm in an open
polyamoros relationship - it's great!! Both my wife and I maintain
active OKC profiles and date other people - sometimes together but
mostly separately. If you are curious about poly, or would like to
see my photo, I'd be happy to talk and share - just ask me.
I work hard and play right. I'm a dedicated friend, and once you
claim that status in my life, there is little I wouldn't do for
I like meeting new people - learning what makes them tick, what
they know, how they think. Everybody has something very unique. I
will challenge you, learn from you, see things from your point -
and do the same for you. Together, we'll grow personally.
I find smart, confident women very sexy! If you view my profile and
think we might connect - send me a note, even if it's a simple Hi.
Break the societal stereotypes! :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Building the circle of friends. Raising kids with my wonderful
wife. Training to fight like my life depends on it. Being active in
the community. Enjoying life! I'm happy with who I am at this
point, and what I've done. I'm excited about the personal growth -
the past and the future.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Many things, professionally and recreationally. Pretty much
anything I put my mind into. Maintaining a good work-life balance,
spending time with family, friends, and myself.
Listening. Helping - not necessarily by trying to solve the problem
(although I'm good at that, too). Being supportive.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A sparkle in my eyes, a shy personality, a sense of humor once I
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Three Comrades; Love in the time of Cholera; Liar's Poker; Atlas
Shrugged; The Fourth Turning; This Is Where I Leave You; Extremely
Loud and Incredibly Close; Opening Up; The Ethical Slut
"Journeys" by Robert Monroe
Leonard Cohen (which I'm discovering new depth of)
Medley of oldies but goodies
One Day; As Good As It Gets; Anger Management; The Game; Gloomy
Sunday; Last Samurai; Up in the Air; Same Day Next Year; Other
Sushi; but really - anything. And I cook well.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love and Sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...how much online dating is like a job search. Your work on your
resume, tweaking and fixing tiny things. You send it to many, many
companies that advertise openings. Some will respond, but most
won't. You may even get an interview, and if you do well, it will
be followed by another one, and maybe another one. At the end, you
may land that perfect spot that will let you apply all your
abilities - and shine, and grow! Or... it may end up being not what
you expected, and you realize it, and you shake hands and continue
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is hardly a typical Friday. It's a best time to start the
- Out with friends
- In with my family
- Friends over for quiet dinner
- Theater in the City
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
... is that I won't tell you private things until I'm comfortable
with you. But then I'm an open book.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... you know yourself well and are open about your choices and
views on life
... you have a sense of adventure.
... you are familiar with scheduling, and value your time as well
... you realize that Love does not diminish when it's shared.
... you are smart, fun, active, and full of energy.
... you can communicate your thoughts clearly and know what you
want and what you are looking for.
... you are looking for a long-term friendship, emotional and
romantic partner, but not a husband.
... you like to kiss and are good at it
Who are you looking for?
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