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AManCalledZen

40 Cape Town, South Africa Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Aug 7
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Speaks
English, Afrikaans
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
One night she found a book of Calvin and Hobbes under his bed. She was expecting to find porn.
Later, he arrived back from the shop with ice cream, her favourite kind, and a loaf of hot, fresh bread. It smelled so good she could not control her toes.
After they had their little feast they went for a walk on the beach, but not in that distant way that couples often do, but they always something interesting.
Sometimes they arranged a few stones and photographed them. Or played Spot-The-Tourist.

He worked in a lab with buzzing computers and flying machines and many mad, mad things, and she knew when he came home that he would have something interesting to tell her. Something fun.

Sometimes he would disappear into their study for an hour or two. Sometimes before work, sometimes after work, because writing was his dream, after all. And it was starting to happen too.
He did have his dark side, but is usually came out in his writing. Iit never scared her in the real world.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
He worked with computers and robots, and what she suspected was a secret time travel project but was actually a chocolate dispenser.
He wrote in his spare time, and ran a small business.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
He could draw. Not manga and robots and teenage things, but real people with real emotion. He had a talent for art.
He could also get so deep inside her mind, deeper and further than she had let anyone get before. They traveled through her mind like voyagers on a great journey, and it both excited and scared her.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
He was a smart guy, and he didn't pull punches with his sense of humour. The first time they met she snorted her milkshake from her nose.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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His favourite movie was Lost in Translation.
And his favourite game was Dune.
Sometimes she'd hear him laughing at QI, or hear him lie back in bed when he read Catch-22 for the hundredth time.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
He told her he loved those conversations where we ended up on the floor in hysterics, and those moments when we felt we had just discovered something profound.
He said he wanted to wrap me in gossamer thread and hold me close.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
He wanted to share his life with someone. To be in their story. To write their future together.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
They went out, but it wasn't their main thing. They loved doing things around the home. Relaxing, being creative.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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He hated rugby. This made him unpopular with the popular kids.
You should message me if
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She had to find out more about him. She knew if she let him get away that she would never truly be seen. She could not bear living a life of superficial emptiness and shallow conversation. She had outgrown those things.