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40 • Cape Town, South Africa • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–35
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Mar 15
- 6′ 0″ (1.83m)
- Body type
- A little extra
- Mostly anything
- Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
- Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Science / Engineering
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- English, Afrikaans
Later, he arrived back from the shop with ice cream, her favourite kind, and a loaf of hot, fresh bread. It smelled so good she could not control her toes.
After they had their little feast they went for a walk on the beach, but not in that distant way that couples often do, but they always something interesting.
Sometimes they arranged a few stones and photographed them. Or played Spot-The-Tourist.
He worked in a lab with buzzing computers and flying machines and many mad, mad things, and she knew when he came home that he would have something interesting to tell her. Something fun.
Sometimes he would disappear into their study for an hour or two. Sometimes before work, sometimes after work, because writing was his dream, after all. And it was starting to happen too.
He did have his dark side, but is usually came out in his writing. Iit never scared her in the real world.
He wrote in his spare time, and ran a small business.
He could also get so deep inside her mind, deeper and further than she had let anyone get before. They traveled through her mind like voyagers on a great journey, and it both excited and scared her.
And his favourite game was Dune.
Sometimes she'd hear him laughing at QI, or hear him lie back in bed when he read Catch-22 for the hundredth time.
He said he wanted to wrap me in gossamer thread and hold me close.
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