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27 San Francisco, CA Man


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6′ 2″ (1.88m)
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Mostly vegetarian
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
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Wants kids
Likes cats

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My self-summary
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I'm a British-American actor-turned-teacher and avid long-distance runner, originally from London. Growing up, my childhood was actually split among England, the Bay Area, and Amsterdam (transatlantic parental divorce = messy). After going to high school over here, I did a BA and MA in English at the University of London, then was an actor for a few years before moving back here to San Francisco (yes, partly for the weather). I'm passionate about teaching, books, theatre, and film. I love to run (marathons and ultras mainly), and I am a keen fan of both soccer and baseball (my teams, respectively, are Arsenal and the Giants). I enjoy good beer, good laughs, and good food, whether I'm eating out or cooking myself. As for dating, well, I'm having another crack at OkC after a prolonged absence.

So there you have it.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm currently a teacher supervisor for a company that runs programs for kids and adults to teach them to become better readers. In short, I teach kids how to read, introduce them to amazing books, and then teach other teachers how to do the same! It's fulfilling, rewarding, and challenging in the best way possible.

For a few years I did work, and sometimes still do, as an actor. I was in an independent feature film in the Bay Area last summer, called "Prep School", in which I played the stereotypically evil (but charming) British character. Aside from that, the highlight of my acting career so far was touring in The Importance of Being Earnest for four months around Italy, and I did the same job the previous year but playing Mr Darcy in Pride and Prejudice.

Some day I'll be an English and Drama teacher wearing a jacket with elbow patches. They give you one of those when you get the job, right? I hope so. (I'm joking...I already own one.) I also hope to run my own theatre company.

I ran 3 marathons and two ultras this year, so yes, I am crazy.

On weekends at the moment, I split my time between running, watching soccer in a pub, reading, hanging out with close friends, watching movies, and casually drinking.

Lastly, I love to hike. I try to go to Yosemite every year with my brother and pretty much hike my legs off. We also befriend marmots.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Conversing. And making people laugh. I enjoy those long meandering conversations that last well into the night and cover life, the universe, and everything.

Also, everything mentioned above. Teaching, writing, acting and long-distance running.

I think I hold a conversation pretty well, am intelligent, and can explore a city with the best of them.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My blue eyes, my height. Traces of my British accent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Literature: Almost all of it? Particularly...Shakespeare, Oscar Wilde, Hemingway, Fitzgerald, Milan Kundera, PG Wodehouse, Jonathan Franzen, Michael Chabon, David Nicholls, Ray Bradbury, Roald Dahl. The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy gets a strong mention too. And a book called the Art of Fielding by Chad Harbach.

Favourite albums: Blood on the Tracks - Bob Dylan, Graceland - Paul Simon, OK Computer - Radiohead, Catch a Fire - Bob Marley, Room on Fire - The Strokes, Abbey Road - The Beatles. Honorable mentions for The Pogues, Barenaked Ladies, The Shins, The Kooks, and Guster.
Film: Almost impossible to pick favourites. I do love a good film though: is there anything better than a film night?

TV shows: Mad Men, The Office (UK version), Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, Parks & Rec, It's Always Sunny, The West Wing, House, the first couple seasons of 24, Fry and Laurie/Jeeves and Wooster

Radio: This American Life, The Bugle podcast, Freakonomics

Food: Anything Italian, Indian, Burmese, or Thai, so long as it's done right.

Drink: Whiskey, good beer (yes I am a beer snob), red wine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Running, laughter, books, sports, and good food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
That novel I might someday finally write.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't think I have a "typical" Friday night. Lately it's an evening run followed by dinner and beers with close friends, and talking philosophically well into the night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You'll have to ask me in person for that!
You should message me if
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You're intelligent, funny, and curious.

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