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31 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 4:22am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Banking / Finance
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Farsi (Fluently), Persian (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Intellectual dexterity mixed with alpha male athleticism tossed in with hard work, fidelity, commitment, admiration, and affection.

I am a social wallflower. I manage to find a balance between confidence and humility. I tend to be attracted to the ones who are outgoing but soft-spoken and yet somehow find a way to stand out.

I am looking for someone who is beautiful on the outside but even more beautiful on the inside. Intellectually aware, politically informed, and willing to accept me for the PERFECT and IMPERFECT person that I am.

My life partner needs to be healthy in mind and body. Hopefully she can laugh at herself and is unafraid to be vulnerable. Affectionate but a tough b!tch when she has to be, ambitious, hard working, and driven. Pushing to help me grow and I will do the same ;)

Serious messages only PLEASE (bonus points if you can make me laugh).
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently working in the investment group of a real estate firm. I like to spend my free time playing guitar (trying to save up for a Gibson SG-14) and fantasy football. I am also into world politics, intellectuals, and critical thinking! Last but not least, I LOVE to work out!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hungry Hungry Hippos, Legos, erector sets, Family Feud, 90's tv show trivia, fantasy sports, SPLAT, Shark Attack, Guess Who, Rummikub, UNO, Spades, Hearts, Poker, Gin Rummy, pretty much any card game ever invented...
The first things people usually notice about me
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Always making my next move!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Shawshank, Braveheart (I watch it at least once a week), The Office, Curb, Boardwalk Empire, Homeland, Game of Thrones.

Books: Kite Runner, Thousand Splendid Suns (great read), 4 Hour Work Week, No Easy Day, I mean...there's just WAYYYY too many!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) DirecTV NFL Sunday Package (as preluded above)
2) The New York Times/Wall Street Journal/Bloomberg/Economist
4) Big Screen TV's
5) My iPad 2
6) My sense of humor :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Which two words in the English dictionary, written consecutively, would bring up ZERO search results on
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Reading up on the markets, the global economy, geopolitical issues, and of course, sitting behind my cubicle crunching numbers as I watch my youth slip away...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am the only male that cried during the movie "like crazy!"
You should message me if
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If you are who you say you are!