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ANT1CS

47 / M / Straight / Single

Germantown, Maryland

His Details

Last Online
Today – 6:15am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Education
Job
Income
Offspring
Has kids, and wants more
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am a smart, nostalgic, super creative geek, Renaissance man type, looking for a like-minding geeky girl to enjoy our lives together in a long-term relationship. My kids give me inspiration and keep me (mostly) grounded, but I am a dreamer who has his head in the clouds. I have a collection of about 25 vintage arcade games and pinball machines that I collect and restore. At one point I had the largest home arcade in the world. I'm a guy who's pretty much done a little bit of everything, from working on indie films to flying helicopters, to being somewhat of an inspiration to others.

I am a very cerebral person, and definitely enjoy thinking, talking, and contemplating the world we live in with another person. I hate not having anyone to share my thoughts with, and am looking for someone who likes to look up at the stars or chat about interesting things over food or coffee.

I've been in Virginia almost my entire life but relocated to the SF Bay Area at the start of 2011 to take a dream job at EA (the game company) as a UI Designer/Lead Engineer. I moved back after a few months due to be with my kids. Luckily EA let me keep my super-cool Bay Area job and I am working remotely from a satellite office they have in Fairfax. I do still hope that at some point in my life I can take my kids with me and go back to the Bay!

How I would describe myself:

- I am an INFP personality type
- An extremely sensitive, feeling, and empathetic person (seemingly extinct qualities in men from what I've seen so far)
- Intelligent / Thinker
- A real, and genuine human being
- A great dad and a (hopefully) good role model for my children
- Down to earth (but my head in the clouds, lol)
- Hopelessly romantic
- Sucker for movies that make me cry
- Honest
- Accomplished
- Creative
- Respectful
- Thoughtful
- A dreamer. I like to think big!
- I do things from the heart which makes me spontaneous but I'm also...(see next item)
- A logical thinker and problem solver.
- Cerebral
- Well spoken
- Polite
- A geek / dork :-P
- Intimate
- Funny!
- A grammar freak. I don't always get it right, but it's important to me and I still care about good grammar.
- Extreme eye for detail
- LOVING!
- Inspirational
- Always looking for beauty in the things in the world around me
- s-n-u-g-g-l-y-!
What I’m doing with my life
Single dad for my kids. I work for EA games as a Lead UI Software Engineer.
I’m really good at
Art, music, creativity, software.
The first things people usually notice about me
Extremely intelligent, but very young at heart. Even my kids think I act goofy and like a kid a lot of the time. I love to make people laugh!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Video games, movies, programming, spending time with my kids, collecting and restoring classic arcade games, photography.

Favorite video games are Asteroids, Pacman, Geometry Wars, Portal 12, Bioshock 12, Dead Space 12

All things 70s and 80s. Star Wars, Tron, Space 1999, Battlestar Galactica (the 1978 series), Firefly, E.T. The Extra Terrestrial, An American Tail, Mythbusters, Big Bang Theory, Conan O'Brien, etc.

I love the beach, mountains with a stunning view, boat rides, Disneyland, Disneyworld, Epcot Center, Panera Bread, and the Rainforest Cafe!
The six things I could never do without
My Kids
A true sense of purpose, and a sense of where my life is going
Movies, video games, other geeky stuff
Companionship
Dr Pepper
Coffee with French Vanilla Creamer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Pretty much everything. I never stop thinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
At home wishing I were dating or married :-)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
...you are looking for the beginning of a relationship that lasts forever. It all starts with dinner or coffee and some honest conversation. I'm tired of being alone and you probably are too. I'm tired of futzing around with dating sites and am really hoping to meet someone I can care for and be with for the rest of our lives.