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AShotInTheDarkX

20 / F / gay / Single

East Meadow, New York

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 2" (1.57m).
Body Type
Skinny
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Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Income
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am laid back, genuine, and musical.

My Self-Summary

I play the drums...been playing for four years now
I love reading song lyrics that I can relate to, it helps me cope with situations that i'm going through, as do the occasional midnight drives =)
I want to be in a band rather badly at the moment. If you're interested, let me know.
I like extreme sports such as skateboarding, aggressive inline, surfing and snowboarding (but i'm a beginner at the last two)
I'm a good listener and a good friend. (so i've been told)
I treat others how I want to be treated; with respect.
I really like to make people laugh and I like helping other's with problems they're going through.
I'm very grounded, forgiving, and extremely loyal.
Your secrets are always safe with me.
My favorite color is BLUE.
I consider myself to be an adventurous person; I like to go out and explore, take day trips to cool places and I absolutely MUST take pictures wherever I go, haha. I love my camera and I love making memories that I can look back on when i'm older.
Most importantly, what you see is what you get with me. No games, no acts, just me. I'm a "real" person, as some put it.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm in my last semester at Hofstra studying Psychology. I'm so happy to finally be graduating and moving out of my house. I'm officially going to grad school for Industrial/Organizational Psychology at Baruch College in the city starting this January. So, my winter break will be spent furniture shopping for my new apartment. Haha, it sounds awful but i'm just really excited!

I’m really good at

Being myself and not holding back. Take me or leave me. I am weird, quirky, strange, clumsy, silly, funny and whatever else you want to call me. But the one thing I can say is that I will not change who I am for ANYONE. I'm searching for someone who can appreciate my quirks and sillyness; someone who knows how to laugh/has a good sense of humor, someone who knows how to have fun, and someone who at the end of the day just knows not to take life too seriously. This doesn't mean that I don't have a serious side too. I know when there's a time for joking and when there isn't.

The first things people usually notice about me

My blue-green eyes or my weird laughs, or my loud nike's. But I promise, I wear normal shoes too...sometimes.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Music: A Day To Remember, Children Of Bodom, DevilDriver, Mnemic, Unearth, In Flames, Lamb Of God, God Forbid, Corpus Christi, The Autumn Offering, Diecast, Asking Alexandria, Trivium, Megadeth, Sonic Syndicate, Arch Enemy, Nodes Of Ranvier, Shiny Toy Guns, Motley Crue, Darkest Hour, Bleed The Sky, Scar Symmetry, Mercenary, Becoming The Archetype, War Of Ages, Into Eternity, Chimaira, 36 Crazyfists, Dark Tranquillity, Unearth, Haste The Day, Still Remains, Shadows Fall, Austrian Death Machine, Sevendust, If Hope Dies, Born Of Osiris, Sybreed, Protest The Hero, Parkway Drive, Five Finger Death Punch, Dead To Fall, Bury Your Dead, Chevelle, Disturbed, Linkin Park, Breaking Benjamin, Glass Casket, Incubus, Eishbrecher, Rammstein, Saliva, Nickelback, Killswitch Engage, Lacuna Coil, Anberlin, Reel Big Fish, etc.

Movies: Pay It Forward, Breakfast Club, Mr. Hollands Opus, Dead Poets Society, August Rush, SLC Punk, Loving Annabelle, When Night Is Falling, Empire Records, etc.

Books: The World According To Garp, Me Talk Pretty One Day, The How of Happiness, The High Price of Materialism, other psychology related books, etc.

Food: Pizza, anything from Panera Bread, Chicken parm, chinese food, buffalo chicken sandwiches, fruit punch, french fries, burritos, taquito's, quesadilla's (anything mexican, really), lots of pasta, caeser salad, green olives, pickles, crepes <3, hummus, sometimes indian food, and if you're lucky you'll get me to try some sushi.
Not really a fan of seafood or fast food such as Wendy's, Mcdonalds, Burger King, etc. Also I don't really eat steak and burger's too often.

The six things I could never do without

1) Orange juice
2) Skateboard
3) Drums
4) Music
5) Good friends/being connected to people
6) Texting

I spend a lot of time thinking about

1) Gender roles in lesbian relationships and why they exist--gender roles are super outdated and irrelevant, un-necessary, etc. We are lesbians for a reason; we want to date other women, therefore I do not believe one girl has to "be the man" and the other has to "be the woman". I believe in equality and both partners just be themselves, whatever that is.

2) Happiness set points, how to raise happiness levels, how to engage in activites that best "fit" me and my strengths, and how to live a more fulfilling life.

3) What I want in another person. So far, pretty much every person i've dated has been completely wrong for me.

4) What my life will be like starting in January--who will I meet, where will I work, where will i live?! lol

On a typical Friday night I am

Out with my awesome friends usually finding something cool to do...definitely like to explore and take random drives to anywhere. Otherwise i'll be at home chillen on the couch watching some movies.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am telemarketer. I will call you during dinner!! Only if you've gone to Hofstra.

I say the word "neat". =)

I'm sort of quiet when I first meet people. It takes me a while to open up, and especially to trust.

And finally, I have a Snoopy obession. I have Snoopy pajamas and I also have a Snoopy tattoo on my back. Haha.

You should message me if

You're a laid back, genuine, kind person who knows how to laugh and have a good time.

Controlling, manipulative, mentally unstable, overly dramatic, immature, mallicious, girls need not apply. Thanks.