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22 Fairfield, CT Man, Cis Man

Man, Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 18–29
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:05am
Gay, Queer
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
some people have told me i have an intimidating personality. well fuck you no i don't, i look like a 14 year old with jungle legs and a napoleon complex

just show me why you're weird and make it count and make it real. nothing turns me off like someone putting on airs

self-hating/trans-exclusive queers need not apply, take your "str8-acting" "masc" "normal" bullshit elsewhere

(fair warning i will respond to you if i am interested but i will also respond if you seem like a chill person who i am maybe not interested in dating but interested in bein chill buds with!!!!)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
ok so i just graduated from umass

now i'm i guess drinking a lot of beer and trying to write some songs/learn bass??

singing very loudly when no one asked for it

trying to work my way out of Connecticut by taking care of animals and preschoolers at a nature place, workin on my arm strength to make a better owl perch

hosting at a restaurant because capitalism

just kinda figurin shit out, whateva
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
scaring people without realizing it and also being very angry about social justice (mostly the lack thereof)

sleep deprivation

recently, nervous cluttered speech

weird voices

smoochin' ;*

reckless spending

The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i'm literally a gremlin

i'm a lot less serious than i look in my pictures probably

i'm needlessly verbose
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
i like dandelion wine, his dark materials, the hitchhiker's trilogy, china mountain zhang, spirited away, rocky horror picture show, the girl who leapt through time, harold and maude, pee-wee's big adventure, thelma and louise, FLCL, parks and recreation, neon genesis evangelion, game of thrones, PWR BTTM, hunx & his punx, noisettes, dogbreth, courtney barnett, speedy ortiz, white lung, screaming females, st. vincent, kimbra, phox, plumtree, be your own pet, hop along, vienna teng, mother mother, jenny owen youngs, the white stripes, the go! team, stornoway, company of thieves, sleeper agent, carina round, lady lamb, deerhoof, cakes da killa, chance the rapper, japandroids, fugazi, sleigh bells, burritos, noodles, indian food, food in general, earthbound, chrono trigger, shadow of the colossus, shin megami tensei, wind waker, bit.trip, zero escape, mass effect, dragon age, fire emblem, ace attorney, life is strange, ffxiv, generic jrpgs, and weird indie games like gone home

also pretty much anything with a well-written gay storyline in it tbh
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
nature, adventurous friends, blood sport, mUsIc Is My LiFe LoL, pups, universal love, video gamez, FOOD, screaming, science, beer, sex, the ability to climb things, fourteen, fifteen, sixteen
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what color my hair should be next

also probably the lack of effort i put into things i tell myself are my passions but HEY THATS LIFE EH

social issues and how angry i am all the time about them??
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hopefully sleeping and getting to work at 8:45am the next day

saturday night however i am hopefully inebriated in some fashion and painting my face

otherwise i'm playing video games and moping about people not wanting to do shit
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i haven't written a single god damn song to speak of, just shitty teen angst level "lyrics" that you must earn the right to read and subsequently laugh at

oh also i have really hairy arms and legs

and i genuinely liked final fantasy xiii

blue isnt my natural color
You should message me if
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you wanna be the cyborg to my beast boy if you know what im talkin bout

you're trying to get a group together for some weird narrative-based tabletop rpg because i am so fuckin down (misspent youth pls)

you want a hiking buddy who will squeeze you really tight whenever he feels like he's living in some stupid pretentious indie romcom

you wanna listen to me sing or maybe write music with me or maybe try and get a crazy alt punk garage rock band thing goin on

you have multiple pictures that aren't selfies

you like being open about your weird emotions and don't get freaked out by someone not holding back theirs

your flirting strategy doesn't include trying to impress me or sucking up to me, god damn

you're into queer issues and their intersectionality with the issues of other marginalized groups and like to YELL ABOUT IT

you have a dog, holy shit if you have a dog (or a reptile!!!!)

you wanna play borderlands or s/t because i got that humble bundle and everyone is too busy

you like doing fun things on a whim without much planning

you're gonna say something other than just "Hi, how are you?" or anything like that