We're a couple. We're looking for a true triad. A third person to be equals with us in a poly relationship. Primarily a woman. He's not afraid of emotional connections with men, but there's no sexual attraction there so it just seems less fulfilling to us. What we are NOT looking for is a woman to use sexually without regard for the emotional toll that comes with being a secondary partner. We want partners where everyone feels connection in all directions.
You should know, though, that we've been exploring our kinky side too and are loving it. If you joined our dynamic be ready for an unconventional relationship. We're not gonna throw a mask on you and parade you around (unless you're into that), but just a few steps outside of normal. If you tend to seek dominant partners in bed and/or life you'll fit in a little better than if you're dominant yourself, but the energy flow is more important.
So, importants aside, you should also know he's adventurous and she's shy (but so much fun once you know her). We're into everything that involves new experiences and expanding existing experiences. We're trying to grow as people, but sometimes just go out and try to disconnect from ourselves.