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  • Ages 23–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Sep 5, 2013
Asian, White
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Seeing Someone
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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I am seeing someone right now. I don't know what to do with this profile, now. Seems kind of awkward. I guess if you're looking for friends, that's cool. But I won't really be that active here for a while.


Here I am. I have a philosophy. It is from Bill and Ted. "Be excellent to each other." For a stoner flick, that is a remarkably succinct way of wrapping up a life style. It's as good as some, and better than many, and it works out.

My life is a few things: music, teaching music, writing music, writing about music... I guess there's maybe a trend going on here. I actually play cello. Not for any symphony, or anything. I just prefer to do my own thing.

That said, I have my ambitions. I want to get a novel published. I'd like to see a symphony or a famous chamber group play my music. See some of my students go to music school. You know. Normal stuff.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently maintaining a blog, writing a book, composing music for myself, teaching students how to play cello and write music, and reading. I write fiction, poetry, and erotica. Sometimes it all blends together.

Here is me laying into the cello:

And here is a poem I have heard other people say they like:

All is All is All

Big-bellied dancer
thick in thigh wild
laugh leap
wild hip wild sweat
wild while winding wet

sweet foot stomp
seizure stomp stutter
stormy grape stomp
sweat juice
sweet juice
sweat wild wine
winding light floor
foot fly light foot
floor fly foot alight
alight a kite alight
all is light
a light
curvy laughing light

big-bellied dancer
thick in thigh wild
leap alight
leap a light
leap a laughing light alight
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Music. Writing. Cuddles. Laughing. Growing beards.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My beard, usually. Depends on how lazy I've been with shaving.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Book: Boccaccio's Decameron.
Movie: My Neighbor Totoro.
Show: Futurama
Music: Beethoven
Food: Sriracha Sauce.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Friends: They helped me survive, several times.
2. Music: it's what I do.
3. Books: Also what I do.
4. A good bed. Alas, I am currently lacking. I am devastated.
5. Games: Board games, really. I like the socializing part.
6. An audience. I'm an introvert... until I have an audience.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Just... take a guess. But honestly, my thoughts are far-wandering. Right now, I am thinking about the book I am writing. It is called "Leonard Stotch and the Multitudinous Monsters." Also, I think a lot about teaching. And gaming.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends. Or reading.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hansel is so hawt right now. I mean, I can barely contain myself. Man, I hope you get that reference. If not, we're probably not to be. We can still be friends though. Maybe.
You should message me if
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You want to meet a manly man in tights. Or sometimes a corset, if there's a showing of the Rocky Horror picture show. (I don't actually have a corset.)