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ATopGun4U

57 / M / Straight / Single

Toms River, New Jersey

His Details

Last Online
Today – 5:36pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Italian (Okay)

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My self-summary
I am a intelligent, confident, honest, trustworthy and fairly handsome. One, who enjoys laughing and wit- with a contagious laugher, has been used to describe me; having the energy to make people laugh and feel comfortable, and smile when the jokes on me . Honesty and trust is emphasized as two of my highest provisions, with moral character, and family love, great significance. And it is Macroni- not pasta, and dravy not sauce- lol.

My desire is to discover a woman who is bright, witty, sexy, sensuous, mutually satisfying, romantic and compassionate, a vogue and at times a provocative dresser. A classy lady who is bright, communicative, sophisticated, silly, friendly, and comfortable with herself in casual, dress, or bathing suit on a boat or wave runner.

Living off the Bay in Brick- boating, fishing, crabbing, sailing, water skiing, and wave runner are my summer enjoyments and I would prefer to be out in the rain and snow then inside on the couch. Definitely enjoy inspiring ethnic foods and engaging dinners for a woman who shares my taste in International cuisine and fine wines.

Being fit and leading an active and healthy life style is a 'good thing'; not seeking a “Barbie” just a woman who is size-weight-height proportional. I am--177lbs, athletically built with no 'pot', gym, healthy diet and I feel more comfortable with a woman with similar priorities. TATS are welcomed.
What I’m doing with my life
My free time is filled with my children, gym workout/CV, volunteer and community work. Traveled waay often on business, and vacation to much of the free world enjoying cruises to the Carib, weeks in Europe and Asia, and weekend get-a-ways that are an enjoyable driving distance.
I’m really good at
asking questions::--> LIKE-->WHY DO WOMEN ASK FOR A MAN TO MAKE THEM LAUGH AND NOT ASK FOR A MAN WHO IS BRIGHT AND FOR INTELLIGENT ?
The first things people usually notice about me
Hmmmmm---> I guess it has to be the toilet paper stuck to the soles of my shoe and dragging behind me,,,,sigh!

I am a bright, confident, honest, trustworthy and fairly handsome. A man who enjoys laughing and wit- with a contagious laugher. Have energy to make people laugh and feel comfortable, and smile when the jokes on me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
TYPICALLY I DO NOT ATTEND MOVIES very often but worked for GE Healthcare, Pharmaceutical R & D, M&A; and when traveling to Asia and Europe I do read a lot on those long flight and dark evenings. I read Koontz, Clancy, robin cook, Saul, Ludlum, Kellerman, Follet, Cussler, Balducci, Crickton, Stanford, Larousse.
The six things I could never do without
*My Children-Family-Friends
* Really smart people
* Really witty and funny people
* The smiles and laughter of children
* The knowledge and experience of elders
* Technological and scientific disruptive technologies
*Intimacy...as in SEX...again why no one writes the that?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why women ask for a man to make them laugh...but never a man with intelligence.

My desire is to discover a woman who is bright, witty, sexy, sensuous, mutually satisfying, romantic and compassionate. One who is bright, communicative, sophisticated, silly, friendly, and comfortable with herself in casual, dress, or bathing suit on a boat or wave runner.

HAVE YOU EVER THOUGHT ABOUT
* If the Universe is infinite what is beyond
* If the Universe is not infinite what is beyond
* Why so many women write they are 49- yet few are 50 or 51
* How a worm hole used in time travel if we never traveled in time
* What is smaller than the smallest particle of matter-Quirk
On a typical Friday night I am
My free time is filled with my children, gym workout/CV, volunteer and community work. Traveled waay often on business, and vacation to much of the free world enjoying cruises to the Carib, weeks in Europe and Asia, and weekend get-a-ways that are an enjoyable driving distance.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Saving the most important for last--> honesty and trust is emphasized as two of my highest provisions, with moral character, and family love, of great significance as well. TATS are welcomed...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
IF YOU ARE--->
* Bright, articulate, sophisticated, thoughtful, romantic, and comfortable with your beauty and sensuality
* Curious person with an adventurous, spontaneous side
* Enjoy being affectionate and feminine (a bit of a tom-boy at times), you have that young at heart, with a “free spirit”, playfully devilishly and sexy quality
* Physically fit, firm, athletic, and you exercise and eat healthy
* Communicative and uninhibited to share vulnerability and needs
* Like me for who I am and with my faults...your fine-tuning is permissible