Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Yes, that is an AR Hatsune Miku. I GOT BORED AND IT JUST HAPPENED
I'll get the bad stuff out of the way first: I have permanent nerve
damage. I walk with a cane sometimes. I have significant external
scarring. I have PTSD. No, I'm not ex-military. I WILL be reduced
to a miserable shaking husk of a human on occasion. Deal with
Still here? Ok then, let's do the happy stuff.
I'm a maker. I tinker, I draw, I code, I grow, and more than
anything else I improve.
I'm a lover. I temper my bleeding heart with cold rational thinking
because I want everyone to suffer as little as possible. It doesn't
mean I don't care. It means I care enough to set my emotions aside
to find the best answer for everyone.
I'm a liar. More accurately, I know how to lie very well and
consciously choose to tell the truth no matter what. Yes it costs
me money on my car insurance. Yes it makes people uncomfortable
sometimes, and yes I've lost friends because they were looking for
a yes man and got honest answers.
I am Alexander. Historical root name Al-Iskander, as in Alexander
the Great, conquerer of the known world and seeker of the ocean at
the end of all things. I will always be looking for something. And
live for the appreciation of reality in all its wonder and horror.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm studying Aquaponics with the goal of remodeling a bus into a
mobile aquaponics bay/RV, getting fit, constantly seeking new
experiences and enjoying my favorites in my downtime.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm very good at combining creative and rational ideas. I love to
take a fantasy and figure out all the requirements to make it a
reality. I can't drink so I've become great at babysitting drunk
friends. I have a lot of random skills that I learned in lieu of
getting paid for jobs.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People tend to comment on my eyes a lot. Other than that, I suppose
it would be my unique reaction to what would normally be stressful
situations. Low Level stress sets off panic attacks, so I'm a
little fidgety and Ativan and I are good friends. Larger stress
(like car accidents and such) tend to not bother me at all.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Fantasy books: Garth Nix or Stephen King, Piers Anthony, or any of
the Forgotten Realms books.
Non-fiction: The life-changing magic of tidying up, 10%
Movies: Miyazaki films, Dr. Horrible's Singalong Blog, Song of the
Sea, and Law Abiding Citizen.
TV: Mostly anime and Anthony Bourdain's shows.
Music: Everything except really heavy rap/hip hop and "sad/scorned
woman" stuff that is always on the radio.
Food: The only foods I REALLY don't like are stews and vinaigrette
dressings. I love sushi (even just the sushi rice is delicious) and
burgers. My favorite foreign food is Peruvian. They can do magic I
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Feeling Loved and appreciated
My service dog
Decent cooking ingredients
Freedom to try new things
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How much I'd love to be a house-husband. I'm effectively
unemployable and am actively pursuing disability. I want the
freedom to dedicate my alone time to the pursuit of knowledge and
my time with my life partner to be devoted to their happiness.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing babysitter for drunk friends, playing a tabletop game,
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My personal boundaries are pretty much nonexistent. The best way to
communicate with me is with 100% clarity and honesty.
You should message me if
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You are interested in sharing your hobby.
You are looking for a friendship or relationship built on devotion
You just want to talk to someone.
I respond to all messages.
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