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25 Martinez, CA Genderfluid


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:41pm
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly other
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Two-year college
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I'm the oldest of 7 children, disabled, and I'm constantly pushing the limits of what my body will allow me to do. I'm no stranger to pain both physical and emotional, so I'm not afraid of being hurt. In fact, I've come to accept it as a very important part of life. It's what makes the best parts so sweet, right?
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm studying Aquaponics with the goal of remodeling a bus into a mobile aquaponics bay/RV, working freelance as a game designer/assistant producer, and slowly scaling up my exercise so I can get out more.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm very good at combining creative and rational ideas. I love to take a fantasy and figure out all the requirements to make it a reality. I can't drink so I've become great at babysitting drunk friends. I have a lot of random skills that I learned in lieu of getting paid for jobs.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People tend to comment on my eyes a lot. Other than that, I suppose it would be my unique reaction to what would normally be stressful situations. Low Level stress sets off panic attacks, so I'm a little fidgety and Ativan and I are good friends. Larger stress (like car accidents and such) tend to not bother me at all.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Anything written by Garth Nix or Stephen King, Piers Anthony, or any of the Forgotten Realms books. My favorite movies are the Miyazaki films, Dr. Horrible's Singalong Blog, and Law Abiding Citizen. My favorite shows are Bizarre Foods, No Reservations, and Courage the Cowardly Dog. I listen to all forms of music, and I eat a wide range of foods. The only foods I REALLY don't like are stews and vinaigrette dressings.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Intellectually stimulating conversation, decent cooking ingredients, feeling loved, music, my dog, someone I can trust.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How much I'd love to be a house-husband.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either working at home or out with friends playing M:TG. I'd rather be doing something more interesting though.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't really have personal boundaries. Ask me anything, and I'll answer truthfully.
You should message me if
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You want to try a friendship or relationship based on breaking down boundaries, trust, and compassion for each other. Shame is for those who are afraid of being wrong.