Pleased to meet you. You’ve found your way here either by chance or seemingly random circumstance, but I don’t believe in coincidences, so don’t hide in the shadows. Make yourself known to me and let’s see what kind of energy flows between us. New friends are always welcome.
So, what am I looking for here? I want the dance. You know the steps. First contact…meeting that new person, wondering if they could be the one you’ve been searching for? Wondering if you’re the one for them? Getting to know them…learning about them and sharing about yourself. Next comes the phone calls and hearing their voice for the first time…Do they sound like what I was expecting? Do I? Then one of us gets the nerve to ask to meet…something easy, innocuous…usually coffee, or perhaps Denny’s…The more adventurous among us might even suggest something like Vietnamese food. Either way it’s the same…that singular question lingers. “Will we have the chemistry in person that we have online and over the phone?” And all of this…if it all goes well…if the stars align and the energy is there…everything until now has build up to that sweet, inevitable moment: New kiss. And in that moment, anything is possible. I want the dance.
So, some important things about me and who I am:
I’m kind of a geek and I love it! I enjoy going to Phoenix Comicon and the Ren Faire...Halloween holds a special place in my heart. That's not all there is to me, though. I'm a medical student which takes up a great deal of time. When I'm not studying I spend my free time with my family and friends. I love going to the movies, camping, reading, and I'm starting to get into leatherworking, too, which I'm really enjoying.
My undergraduate degree was in philosophy, with a concentration in morals, ethics, and theories of God. I love sharing ideas with people, but I promise you it's not in a jerky kinda way.
I have a really good sense of humor. I love to laugh and have a good time. I can be equally at ease in a bar or a ballroom and will dance at either location, regardless of my ability to dance. Oh, and I like to sing karaoke and will do so completely sober!
I’m in a poly relationship, married to an absolutely wonderful woman whom I love dearly. Yes, she knows I’m here and is 100% supportive of it.
I will answer any questions, any time, about anything, and with complete honesty. I’m virtually unoffendable and won’t judge you for whatever you’re into. Doesn’t mean I’ll be into it too, though.
I'm looking for a serious girlfriend. Someone close is preferred (I'm in southern central Phoenix), but can also be worked around as needed. You do not have to share it, but you have to at least be open to my geekiness, for it is mighty and runs deep within me. No hard drugs, but I'm 420 friendly. You must be open minded, a good person, looking to grow spiritually and as a person, and are looking for something long term. I do have a kink side to me, so the ideal girl will be kinky also or at least open to exploring it with me.