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A_Theory

25 M Bloomington, IN

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:25am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Hey there. I'm a born & raised Texan, currently living in Bloomington. I'm passionate about music, sexuality, community and local/social justice. I enjoy living in the moment and getting things done in creative ways.

So, just to get it out of the way: I'm polyamorous. If you don't know what that means, feel free to ask. My amazing primary anewparadox and I just got engaged,. She's pretty damn awesome, and I'm excited to enter that new territory with her. I'm always down to meet/date new people and see where that goes. Given the right chemistry, sex outside of my primary relationship is a possibility, but not a priority. People in poly relationships, or with poly experience are a +++.

PS: I'm a musician (mostly drums and vocals) and always looking to chat music or meet up for a jam.

PSS: I'm better described as 'queer' or 'pansexual', but bisexual was the closest option on this site. BOTTOM LINE: I like all the bits.

PSSS: I'm lucky enough to have someone who tells me I'm cute and sexy everyday, so please- if you're going to message me, make it have some substance. Thanks.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a new-media marketer, currently working for a publishing company. I am always trying to create/explore/promote new music as well.

I recently moved to Bloomington, IN to live with my partner while she does the grad school thing at IU. Currently finding my place in town, especially in regards to the poly and kink scenes. And spending as much time outside as possible.
I’m really good at
- I cook a delicious dinner.
- I've been drumming most of my life, so probably pretty good at that.
- I'm pretty good at community organizing. Or throwing a party.
The first things people usually notice about me
- I say y'all.
- I'm known to wear some classy old hats.
- I sometimes wear colorful pants. Or skirts.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: Fugazi, Radiohead, OutKast, Mogwai, Heatmiser, Elliott Smith, Japandroids, Shellac, Deafheaven, Animal Collective, Shabazz Palaces, Mogwai, Lupe Fiasco, Trombone Shorty, Robert Glasper, Herbie Hancock, Creedence Clearwater Revival, Steve Earle, Townes Van Zandt, Bon Iver, Big Black, Black Flag, Baroness, Joy Division, Cursive, Desaparecidos, Beastie Boys, Arcade Fire, Daft Punk, David Bowie, Depeche Mode, Dntel, Fleet Foxes, Explosion in the Sky, Gorillaz, Jay-Z, Bob Dylan, M83, Mastodon, Black Sabbath, Ratatat, Talking Heads, St Vincent, Icky Blossoms, Rural Alberta Advantage, Tom Petty, Wild Flag, Yeah Yeah Yeahs... You get the point, right?

Food: Anything fresh with some love put into the prep. Getting into French cooking lately, but I'm down with all sorts of flavors. I also love me a mean food truck.

Entertainment: I love live music and performances of comedy, theater (traditional and bizarre alike). I'm pretty into Sci-Fi books and shows as well.

Books: Will read almost anything with a challenge to it, fiction or non-fiction. Shout out to my man Phil Dick.
The six things I could never do without
- Delicious grub
- Good, old fashioned punk rock
- My vinyl
- Open, honest sexuality
- My drum set
- A bicycle
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Music, sexuality, words, community, sustainability and culture.
On a typical Friday night I am
Honestly, it varies quite a bit. Often on a date or with friends. But, sometimes I'm so mushy from the long work-week that I'm just cuddling with my fantastic partner, eating Red Vines and watching Secretary.

However, I'm not a homebody and I'm pretty flexible during the work week and weekend alike. I'm always down for a tasty drink, a bike ride or a live show (most-often music, but I like a queer-friendly strip or burlesque environment as well).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm definitely a kinky perv. If you don't like the sound of that, you might not want to have sex with me, and that's okay.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
- You read this profile and found something interesting to chat about.
- You live in or near Bloomington and want to meet for a bite or a pint.
- You're a musician and want to jam sometime.