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A_spotless_mind

25 / F / Gay / Single

Cape May, New Jersey

Her Details

Last Online
Feb 15, 2011
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Student
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Sign Language, Irish, Spanish

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My self-summary
"We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly"

I tell everyone I'm the sweetest asshole you'll ever meet. At first most people don't understand what I mean when I say this, but once you get to know me it all makes sense. The best explanation I can give is I act like a tough guy when really I'm a sweetheart.

I love to have random adventures, just get in the car and go. Blasting music and singing at the top of my lungs. I have a fascination with people, how they work what they think. I'm constantly cooking, and reading. I'm usually out and about, but at the same time I enjoy watching movies at home.

I also write a lot, but I figure I don't need a degree in that if I ever want to get published. I'm passionate about art, though I cannot draw to save my life. Anything that makes you think, or travel to a different place in your mind. My inner child is very noticeable, but I know when to be serious. I'm constantly learning new things, researching, or investigating. I can't go a day with out imagining some fantasy stemming off of what's actually going on around me. I hope I never lose that quality. I work hard at whatever I do, but I don't make my work my life.

I am funny, smart, and outgoing
I’m really good at
I enjoy learning about new things, I guess you can say I'm a Jill of all trades. If I haven't tried it already I've probably read all there is to know about it. Poetry I suppose too. I'm good at listening, I'm the one everyone goes to with all their problems, I only give advice when asked too.

In the words of Albert Einstein "I have no special talent. I am only passionately curious." I'll add "about everything"
The first things people usually notice about me
My voice, or my eyes. I'm told I have a very sexy voice, and my eyes are four different colors at the same time. Apparently they're very deep and honest. Either that or my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't think there's enough room for this, Books: Perks of Being a Wall Flower, Angela's Ashes, Running With Scissors, Brave New World, The Giver, and The Alchemist I would have to say rank among my top but there's tons more.

Movies: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Closer, Wristcutters (A love story), SLC Punk, Empire Records, there's way to many to list.

Music: when people say they like all kinds they usually don't but I really do. Rock: Reliant K, Our Lady of Peace, Marylin Manson, Slipknot. Alternative: Elliot Smith, Anya Marina, Alanis Morrisette, Ani DeFranco, BLUE OCTOBER(all time favorite band over anything) Oldies: Sinatra, Dean Martin, Sammy D, Ella Fitzgerald, Cat Stevens, Simon and Garfunkel, Bob Dillon, Led Zep, Queen. Rap, Classical, Country. I listen to also, but I don't really have favorites, hell I even like Opera.

Food: I love allll food except seafood, but I love Sushi... Go figure cooked fish, nah! I'll eat it rawww. I'll always try everything once. Weirdest thing I've eaten would have to be a toss up between crocodile, or beef tripe in my Phở Thai (yea look that up lmao. I didn't know what it was until after I ate it... kinda got sick to my stomach after I found out.) I'm not a vegan, but a lot of my close friends are, my favorite nights would be spent at our dinner parties cooking, drinking wine, good music, talking, and watching some pretty bad indie movies.
The six things I could never do without
Car, cellphone, MY FRIENDS and FAMILY, Books, Pen and paper, music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life in general, not necessarily the "what ifs" but more a long the "why?" Not in a woe is me sense, but a curiosity of life.
On a typical Friday night I am
it depends, either out with my friends or just chilling at some one's house. I could be doing just about anything, you never really know with me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've read all the Harry Potter books, and Twilight too...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 21–28
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You are as spontaneous as I am, you have self-confidence. Have you're own opinions on things. Have depth, love some sort of art form. I suppose, someone who is as understanding and curious about things as I am.