Intelligence is the biggest thing for me. I would rather see a filled bookshelf (harry potter and twilight don't count as books to show off) in a woman place than a dvd collection of reality tv shows.
Someone who wants a life where treading water in one place for 30 years is unacceptable. I want to see the world and live in many places. I want to be a historian and walk the streets and see the things great people have walked and seen.
I still have a lot of education in my future with graduate school and working towards a doctorate in history. I'm not going to alter my goals for someone.