My interests are:
Sexual openess or open mindedness
If men don't tell you sex, they are either lieing or their weiners are broken
The golden rule
Being flexible (emotionally and physically)
Playing drums, bass, guitar and singing
Boating, tubing or anything water
Yoga and yogurt
Sewing with my own designs
Anything bike or bicycle
Anything art or artsy
Hearing you fart for humanity
SOMEBODY STOP ME
My ugly truths are designed to attract only the few that will take me for me, & not try to change me into someone they want me to be.
I hope you challenge my character for your safety. Most men are not angels. Just be careful.
My twisted humor has been known to cause barfing but never diarrea.
Life is serious, just not most of the time. There's no fun in a sour puss.
I'm a recovering person. So my growth is continuous. We all have problems. I'm prepared to work on mine. I've been in 12 step programs for most of my life and in the best emotional space ever. Doing the right things for the right reasons.
I'm serious about paying my bills.
Doing for others is what I'm on the earth for.
I'm still in school because my interests makes me happy.
I play music. & am reforming with more of a phunk edge.
I pay attention 2 health.
My shoes or sox don't match, (except work & the like). I have 2 differant feet. A left foot & a right foot. So, to dress them both the same just don't make sense. It started as an accident in 1981 and I've been doing it ever since. 30 pairs of shoes is 900 options. I will maybe never wear the same 2. It makes as much sense as buying 2 cars that are identical.
I wear ties in the cooler months. Some made with goofy stuff. Warn with any shirt & not under the collar like normal people.
I love dollar tree goofball reading glasses. It takes the atire to a whole differant level.
I have a loud jacket-blazer collection.
I'm dating with no expectations for sex (at first). It keeps the anxiety low. Rather than stressin on who's gonna make the first move. Which puts a damper on the real chemistry. So, casual coffee, convo & chemistry. That's all that I'm expecting (at first (did I say that already?)). I'm sooo cool with how that lands. It takes time for anything worthy. No rush. If it's right today, it'll be right in some time. I say all that, not to lead on that I don't like sex. On the contrary. Sex is a giant part of healthy relationships. I feel that it needs to be treated right to keep the excitement for a lifetime. So if you are really not into sex, or use it as a bargaining chip to manipulate, then I will not be your guy. But if you do like sex, then let's keep talking for now & we'll see where it goes.
Take a risk & take me for me. & I'll do the same, with active communication (listening).
Last, you must be clean (that's the same as sober). An occational drink a cupla times a month to me, is considered being a "normie" (normal). That, if it is truly the case is ok with me. It's just the falling down drunk or scheduled daily or weekly drinking thing that I can't do. It's a self respect issue.
If you put non smoker on your profile and you still dabble, that to me is being dishonest so please don't write if you smoke at all. It's also a self respect issue.
You must be health conscious, emotionally healthy & most of all love some kind of something bigger than us all.
If you're still reading up to this point, you must be somebody special.
Bye for now. Please write me back.