My ugly truths are designed to attract only the one that will take me for me, & not try to change me into someone they want me to be.
I am an active listener.
My twisted humor has been known to cause barfing but never diarrea.
Life is serious, just not all of the time.
I've been a 12 step recovery person most of my life, so my growth is continuous.
I own a small bicycle repair-buy-sell-trade shop that I run out of my house.
I'm in school for addictions counseling
I play a 6 string slappin pop hard funk bass.
My shoes or sox don't match, (except work & the like). I have 2 differant feet. A left foot & a right foot. So, to dress them both the same just don't make sense. It makes as much sense as buying 2 cars that are identical.
I wear ties in the cooler months with everything, or even nothing.
I love dollar tree goofball reading glasses.
I have a loud jacket-blazer collection.
I'm dating with no expectations for sex (at first). It keeps the anxiety low. Which puts a damper on the real chemistry. So, casual coffee-tea and convo, that's all that I'm expecting. It takes time for anything worthy. If it's right today, it'll be right in some time. Not to say that I don't like sex. On the contrary. Sex is a giant part of healthy relationship, It should be treated respectfully to keep the excitement forever. So if you don't like sex, or use it as a bargaining chip to manipulate, then I am not your guy. But if you do like sex, then let's keep talking and see where it goes.
You must be clean is sober. An occational drink a cupla times a month if it is truly the case is ok with me. It's the drunkeness or scheduled drinking that's bunk.
Please don't write if you smoke at all.
You must be health conscious and emotionally healthy.
If you're still reading up to this point, you must be somebody special.
Bye for now. Please write me back.