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Abandon_thought

29 / F / Bisexual / Single

Lincoln, United Kingdom

Her Details

Last Online
May 14
Ethnicity
Other
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m).
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Other (Poorly)
My self-summary
I'm one of those easy-going, fun people you meet through a friend and stay in touch with for years. I can make almost anyone laugh, especially when I'm on form. I am known as an "oracle" between my friends as I listen to all the facts and offer sound advice that usually works out - if they follow it!

My personality often comes as a surprise to people in as much as being tall can make people think you're unapproachable when I'm the opposite. My defining traits are kindness, loyalty, thoughtfulness, a quest for justice and honesty.

I make a point of appreciating people and I dont do things by halves, if I make a commitment to something, I will do my best to see it through.

I am somewhat shy and it can take me a while to feel comfortable with someone new, however, once I do, its usually worth it.

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What I’m doing with my life
Seeking new direction at the moment. I am with the Open University and have enjoyed the studying I've done so far, though it has been difficult.

Other than that, please feel free to ask.

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I’m really good at
Singing - music generally is a big part of my life, one of my main regrets is that my CD collection is so small.

Writing - I haven't done any in a while but I enjoy writing fantasy/fiction and erotica.

Putting people at their ease - people can trust me with their secrets and often do.

Persuading - but I'm sure you'll find that out ;)

Logical thinking

Giving advice - in such a way that you reach your own conclusions rather than me pushing in one direction or another

Being fair

Reading - sounds like an odd thing to put on here but I am a really fast reader, I eat books for breakfast!!! (metaphorically, in case you were wondering)

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The first things people usually notice about me
My height!

I border on 6ft2" thanks to my biological Father who was 6ft7".

Other than height, I think people notice my smile or possibly my breasts cos they tend to be at everyone elses eye level!

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favourite books include The Diceman, The Lord of the Rings, Brave New World, Artemis Fowl, His Dark Materials Trilogy, Jane Eyre, The Time Travellers Wife.

Favourite movies include Basic Instinct, Crash (the one with James Spader), The Dark Crystal, The Labyrinth, Laputa - Castle in the Sky, Rent, When Harry Met Sally, Sweeney Todd.

Favourite music... I like all sorts, my tastes range from Kate Bush to Radiohead, David Bowie to Classical and I especially love Rush. I love musicals and generally anything with meaning. I tend not to like modern stuff; though there are one or two songs recently that I've liked. More or less any genre will be found in my collection.

Food... Pasta (anything really with pasta in it), Chicken Tikka and homemade rice pudding. As long as there are no mushrooms in sight, we're usually okay.

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The six things I could never do without
1. Music
2. My family
3. My friends
4. Freedom to think and imagine
5. Sense of humour
6. Ability to articulate my thoughts

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, love, games, films, work, friends, family, time travel, story ideas, bills, a joke I cant wait to tell my best friend, books, implications of my actions, how to say something without offending someone, my good points, my flaws, how to help.

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On a typical Friday night I am
Chatting to my friends and arranging what to do over the weekend. There may be alcoholic beverages involved...

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I am shy of new people and can therefore come across as 'odd' - which I am ;)

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I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 18–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You have full use of your fingers!

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