Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I work full time, I have my own place, and I have my own car. I
have a kid. I'm pretty shy at first. I graduated from college last
year. I have big plans for myself and I'm looking for someone who
wants the same things out of life. I don't have time for games or
drama. I don't want a hook up, so if that's what you're looking for
don't waste your time. I know what I want out of life, and I know
what I'm willing to settle for. My kid comes first. If you're not
up for kids then don't waste my time. I come off as a bitch most of
the time, but that's how I deal with life. If you're going to
message me don't just say hey...I won't reply. And if you can't
read this...and ask me questions are obviously answered by my
profile...I won't answer. I'm pretty much a homebody. I literally
work and then come home to take care of my kid. If I have free time
(it's rare) I am usually hanging out at my best friends house. I
hate the cold. LOVE the heat. I will eventually be back down
south...preferably South Carolina. I'm pretty awesome once you get
to know me...it just takes a little time =)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working five days a week, being a mom 24/7, and trying to make life
better for the both of us.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at listening. Most people come to me for advice and to
vent. I usually don't have a problem with this. I pride myself on
being a mom...so I think I'm good at that. I'm good at motivating
people. I work with mentally handicapped people so I have to be
able to motivate them to do things that they don't really want to
do. I am amazing at cooking and cleaning. I'm a big fan of
organizing someone's house. Weird I know, but it is what it is. =)
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am a really caring person. I will go to the end of the world for
someone I care about without thinking twice about it. If you're
looking for the physical thing about me that people first
notice..it'd have to be my eyes, smile, and curves. Once someone
gets to know me they usually love my sense of humor...and my kick
ass personality. lol.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love mystery books. My favorite author is Dean Knootz.
I'm a sucker for horror movies. I love action thrillers too!
I don't watch much TV, but if I do it's usually something like CSI
or Law & Order.
I listen to all kinds of music but I like Rap and R&B the
I'm up for trying any food once, but I love Italian dishes the
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my future. There's a lot of things I want out of life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at home playing with the kiddo or hanging out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I keep most of my thoughts and feelings to myself...and I'm usually
only attracted to black men.
I’m looking for
- Guys who like girls
- Ages 25–38
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating
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