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35 Summerville, SC Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 10:51am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), German (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I open doors, and pull out chairs. I enjoy chivalry, and honour, and integrity. I like cooking, and cuddling, and chatting. I am here looking for a long term, serious relationship, though I can always use new friends as well! I still have an accent, which gets a bit stronger if I've had a pint or three. I am a total rock star, and dress accordingly! My interests are wide and varied, and I seldom meet anyone with whom I have nothing in common. I love learning new things, whether factoids or new skills, and I can find enjoyment in most anything, especially with the right person. A warning: my sense of humour can be considered, shall we say, dry...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
just moved to Summerville! Finding a new job, new things to do, new band...everything is new!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not being so egotistical as to answer this... ;-) Oh, and music. Cooking too. I'd say sex, but I don't want to bury the lead too much, as it were...yes, that was a joke :-)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
How I look. That I dress well. That I'm a sexy beast. That I really can't take this bit seriously at all.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: favourite authors include Terry Pratchett, Neil Gaiman, Robert Heinlein, Kim Harrison, William Blake, Kurt Vonnegut, too many more to mention, really.
Movies: Star Wars, Mel Brooks films, Kevin Smith films, Stardust, V for Vendetta, again, too many more to mention.
TV: Coupling, Spaced, Black Adder, Big Bang Theory, Eureka, Top Gear, Firefly, Doctor Who
Music: Waaaaaaayyyyyy too much to mention here.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, books, movies, food, oxygen, sleep. In that order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My future, my work, music, the application of physics...and yes, I'll be honest, sex. So sorry if the reproductive prerogative inherent in male mammals offends...oh, and the possibility of commercial space flight. Call me weird, but I passionately believe that this is the future of the human race...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to sleep. Or playing out somewhere. But usually trying to sleep.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Here's where I come down all coy, in the hope that you may actually ask ;-)
You should message me if
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You feel like it. If you like critters. If you actually might want to meet sometime. Or if you think I might be interesting to talk to.
Or, particularly, if you're interested in a relationship. I love meeting new people, but I hope to meet someone who is aiming for more than just a week or two...
If you are the reincarnation of Madame de Pompadour...seriously. Message me. Please!
Please, don't be shy! I'd love to hear from you, I don't bite! Well, I charge extra, anyway... ;-)