I am an optimist. No matter what curveballs life has thrown at me I refuse to become jaded. I choose to see the best in people until they prove me wrong. That being said, players need not apply. I am not interested in playing games. If you are a real man who knows the meaning of honesty and integrity feel free to touch base.
UPDATE: This profile was written shortly after I separated from my husband of 20 years. After a few meetings for drinks and a couple of failed short-term relationships, I feel compelled to be more explicit in terms of who I am and what I'm looking for. While everything above still holds true, it is too vanilla. While vanilla is a perfectly good flavor I would never eat a bowl of vanilla ice cream, it would have to be "spiced up". I am anything but vanilla. Here is what I have figured out over the past year....
Words that people would use to describe me are sassy, energetic, funny, outgoing and smart. Words that people would NEVER use to describe me are boring, couch potato, wallflower or shrinking violet.
I said above that I love watching sports. That is true. I look forward to watching the Red Sox, Bruins, Patriots and 49ers. I am also content to occasionally curl up on the couch and watch a movie. That being said, am I going to be happy watching football for ten hours on a Sunday or watch movies ALL DAY? Nope, not unless I'm sick. I would actually rather read or listen to music than watch TV most of the time.
What am I looking for? Someone who isn't necessarily a mirror image of me, but who complements me. I am looking for someone who can be honest about who they are from the get go. I've met too many people in the past year who present themselves one way and end up being a totally different person down the road.
I am putting this information out there for the sake of full disclosure. If this doesn't sound right for you, I hope you find what you are looking for in the next profile. If this sounds appealing to you and you want to know more about me, send me a message :).