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AbonZel2000

24 / M / straight / Seeing someone

Phoenix, Arizona

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Transportation
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Kids
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)

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I am open minded, a gamer, and an idealist.

My Self-Summary

Here's a somewhat quick list of things that I believe are important for you to know. It's basic and vague or else this would be a very long box. Since different people find different things important, I probably won't have all the details you need, possibly just because I haven't thought of adding it to the list yet, and thus, if you have any lingering questions, feel free to ask, personal or not.

"I'd rather you hate me for everything I am, than have you love me for something that I can't." - "Never Enough", Five Finger Death Punch

I'm a gamer, philosopher, and student. I am polyamorous. I consider myself an idealistic pessimist, though it may or may not mean to you what it does for me. I consider myself open minded. I open doors for people. I do not believe that love is finite. I dislike real life violence (read: not video game, TV, etc) but believe that in some cases, it might be necessary. I dislike people but usually don't dislike the person. I believe in freedom and compassion. People interest me. I enjoy sex and what it means for people, but that doesn't mean I'll sleep with everyone I can. I can listen to Metallica one minute and Morning Musume the next. I do not consider it to be a crime nor a sign of weakness to be considerate and accommodating. I prefer open and honest communication.

Here are my main interests: video games, feng shui, computer games, learning, music, languages, trombone, instruments, anime, roleplaying games, fencing, martial arts, board/card games

What I’m doing with my life

Working as airport security, working on my roleplaying system, working on board game ideas, playing games, my mmo of choice right now is Aion on the Azphel server with the Elyos

I’m really good at

Random flashes of insight, video games, research, usually English, driving

The first things people usually notice about me

My... goatee? *shrugs* You tell me...

Online people notice I use smileys a lot, especially "anime" ones. ^_^ Text messages of any kind always feel so... unfeeling, otherwise.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

These are very not complete lists, but...

Books... I haven't read as much as I'd like to, but I'll say the Robotech series.

Movies... Last Samurai, Equilibrium, Pirates of the Caribbean, Star Wars (the original trilogy), Lord of the Rings

Music... Morning Musume, Hamasaki Ayumi, Puffy AmiYumi, misc other Jpop, Avenged Sevenfold, Megadeth, Metallica, Trans Siberian Orchestra, rock, techno, classical

TV... Stargate SG-1, Andromeda, MacGyver, Bones, Buffy, Angel, Hercules, Xena, sci-fi

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The six things I could never do without

Ideals, Motivation, Women, Technology, Friends, and... something to do.

Ignored the obvious requirements to live, just included things that I believe would cause me to go insane if they didn't exist.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I think a lot about a lot of things. I have a tendency to take long showers because I kind of zone out in my thoughts. I'm pretty much always thinking, but thankfully I'm good at concentrating when I need to, like when driving a car. Most of the time my thoughts are examining the world and people around me, but lately they have shifted inwards; my motivations, ideals, etc.

On a typical Friday night I am

Playing games or hanging out with friends... sometimes both...

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Good question since I'm willing to admit a lot (see above). Ask and you shall have your answer.

You should message me if

I'm going to take this more as what I'm looking for...

First, while I'm generally accepting of people's opinions, if you are against gay rights or believe that I'm going to hell just because I'm a non-believer (and feel the need to tell me), we will not get along.

Honesty is important to me. It's ok if you don't want to talk about something at a particular time, but if we are friends and it applies to us, I'd really prefer to talk about it. If we're in a relationship, it would be required.

Common interests are useful but not necessary, and while I may be interested in trying out your interests, I can't promise anything.

I'll look forward to hearing from you. ^_^

IM doesn't work so well for me, by the way.