OkCupid | AboveTopSecret / 36 / M / Durham, North Carolina

My self-summary

I maintain another profile for dating and friends but I recently decided to put this one up as a way to play with people I might never meet in person. I'm not saying it's out of the question, but the "me" you receive might bear little or no resemblance to the persona I wear in my daily life. Yours might not either. I hope that's going to be part of the fun.

What I’m doing with my life

Exploring. Tasting. Teasing. Sometimes all three at once.

I’m really good at

Try me and find out.

The first things people usually notice about me

I don't know. What's the first thing you noticed?

The six things I could never do without

Artful words, meaningful glances, shared laughter, stolen kisses, the sound of my lover's orgasm, and the happy languor that follows.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Sex and sexuality and how often people hide what they really want until they can't take it anymore.

On a typical Friday night I am

Out and about. Or home. Or somewhere completely different. I'm not sure I have typical nights.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit

I once had a lover who would make her bed with a set of beautiful white silk sheets, then lay me down and dribble a small amount of red wine into my navel and the hollow of my throat. It was the only way she knew for certain she could keep me still. It was an extremely useful lesson in just how little equipment is necessary to create a memorable scene if you pay attention to your partner's desires over time.

I’m looking for

Guys and girls who like bi guys
Ages 26–45
Near me
Who are single
For long-distance penpals, casual sex

You should message me if

Any of this intrigues you. If you have a story to tell and the words to tell it.

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